while I think the backlash is against the way you worded your opine.
I think your intent is more of hating the types of persons who attack ,innonocent persons ,while i can see how that can to far ,if a man was to harm my family ,he will face me first ,and have to kill me first .
that's not hate but rather a sense of protection.these reactions to harm will not be some la la land ,pie in the sky ,but anger and rage like a bear whose mother is angry and seeks to kill the offender who endangered the cub .