GodspromisesRyes
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Seeking the truth said:We have now been married for 7 months. I met her at a bar and we started dating. She is a very good looking girl and 26 years old. Im 25 and hansome. I feel for her very quickly and we got married in 4 months. When we were dating i asked her what she did for work and she said she worked at a massage parlor and answered the phone. I grew up in arkansas and was never familar with these places and what goes on there. Later i after we got married i found out the truth by lieing to her because i had my doubts after being told the truth about the place she worked by a friend.She told me she did massage and she came clean "I think" about what she did why we were together $500 for sex, twice and she said she took her clothes off 30 plus times for $150. She quit working there after i found out and were still together but im so hurt by what she did to me.Im having trouble forgiving her and sometimes i just want to leave her but i love her and knew she was mixed up. Ive done some horrible things to i had sex with a stripper on my bach party night and after i found out what she had done i went to a massage place and had sex and got back at her. I need to move on but still think about it sometimes i mean i used to take back and forth to work and pick her up at this place everyday and trusted her. The horrible thing is she didnt stop working there after we got married it took me finding out the truth for her to stop. How do i forgive her or find the strength to move on?
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If she really loved me dont you think she would have quit especally after we got married?
well more importantly then all these things you first need to believe in Jesus Christ and repent and confess and live for Him, become born again and then forgiveness will be yours from God and you will be able to forgive others as well. you cannot be angry at our wife for being what you know you married, and you did know what form of girl you married. And you cannot hold her to a stadard that you do not hold yourself to. Seek the Lord for salvation and all these other things can be helped by Him.