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[__ Prayer __] Job and apartment

hallowbonnie said:
Yeah I think thats where most of it comes from whenever i get that feeling.My ex had an affair with a woman who made much more money than me.He kept harping on me wanting me to make more money even though i already worked a fulltime job that i loved and we were actually quite comfortable had no kids and didnt want any ,we were able to pay bills play a bit and save a bit.When I left him and my father and stepmother "allowed" me to live with them for a year then some of their friends found out I lived there and i worked retail and was low income and they got rid of me fast 4 days before christmas.So I have this real weird complex with money it seems I dont make enough for anyone to love me but I dont want that kind of love anyway I think its disgusting.
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I am sorry you had to go through that.
 
AirDancer said:
The break-up of the marriage, the rare visits from your Dad .... those can play havoc with self-esteem.

I don't see you as a 'loser'. Indeed, no. Instead, you are a survivor who loves our Lord dearly! (And you're also our friend!)
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I think the most important roll a father can play to his daughter is to love her and to love her mother.When girls grow up with an unhealthy relationship with their father it makes for an unhealthy future in the daughters future with the men she chooses.Some abusive men know how to pick those women too.
 
Thank you guys very much I needed to talk this all out .Thanks for your words.Im gonna try to get some sleep and hopefully workthis brownie off in my sleep lol.
 
Brownie????

You've been munching on a brownie all this time and you didn't offer Kathi or me one?????
 
AirDancer said:
Brownie????

You've been munching on a brownie all this time and you didn't offer Kathi or me one?????
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i really shouldve gave it away lol ive been working very hard to stay healthy and there i go eating a friggin brownie lol have a great day
 
It's been only by dint of will that I haven't made up a batch of brownies today, hallowbonnie. Still, all the ingredients are calling me from the kitchen ... "Make me into brownies!" those ingredients are saying. :shame
 
Praying you will find your self esteem and a lifestyle that is good for you. Any chance you could take a second part time job if the store won't give you more hours? Or maybe you could use those hours to do some training or studying to better your life? You've faced rejection from the two men who should have loved you unconditionally, your father and your husband. Very hard to recover, but with God's help you can do it.
 
I got the number to the district manager soIm gonna call him tomoro and see about more hours and a raise since i havent had one in 3 years.I already feel Gods favor.
 
Kathi said:
Hey yea!!! good catch Air :clap but....but....I can't have chocolate :cries You can have my portion.
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It would be an internet brownie, Kathi ... you can have as much internet chocolate as you wish :sohappy.... and there's absolutely ZERO calories !
 
no, no chocolate for me. you no has chocolate. so say ze chocolate Nazi!
 
Ah..... I see! Thanks for the translation, jasonc ..... had me wondering there for a moment or three!
 
Eugene said:
This sounds like the lyrics "Yes, we have no bananas, We have no bananas today.
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facebook mime. the origin of it I don't know. usually its i no has cheeseburger, you no has cheeseburger too!
 
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