Need some advise on how to go about this

[Corn Pop]

Sorry to hear this, it is hard to hear this at any time of year, double so at Christmas.

Take time to heal and start talking to girls when you are ready.

I'm all good, I wasn't ready for a relationship anyhow that's why I got dumped. It was myself who caused it. The more she tried to build a relationship the more I pulled away. Anyhow she admitted to me now she still has feelings for her ex boyfriend, and I noticed she was starting to spend more and more time with him rebuilding something. I'm not stupid but I never said anything.

I have to focus on myself first then when im ready I will find someone, and she just wants to be friends.

Were still good friends. She's a nice person. I'm still there for her and her kids.