I certainly could use a little bit more positive in my attitude! Recently, it was brought to my attention (by the loving chastisement of my husband) that I have had a bad tendency to complain...
And I thought about it...and I realized that he was right! And that I did it a lot!
Why? I asked myself. Why do I complain about things? I mean, I am actually a very optimistic person, and I have a grateful heart (It is obvious to me that I have been extremely blessed with so many of the conveniences and comforts of life and have done nothing to deserve them)...so I wondered, where is this complaining spirit inside of me coming from? After all, the things I complain about really don't bother me that much.
So again, I was left with the question, "Why?"
And after studying my heart, I came up with three answers. One- I enjoyed the sympathy that others gave me when they heard my complaints. Two- It gave me an excuse to talk about myself. Three- It fed my greedy desire to wallow in self-pity and self-entitlement.
Woah. Wake-up call. Need to nip this in the bud before it blossoms into a rotting, wilting flower that perfumes the atmosphere of my life with polluting, poisonous fumes.
The answer? God's Word, of course!
1 Peter 4 AMP
Practice hospitality to one another...and do it ungrudgingly (cordially and graciously, without complaining but as representing Him.
Oh, if only I could get a hold of this Word and apply it to my life. How much better of a wife, daughter, sister, friend, student, employee, and disciple I could then become! Yes, this is a new week, and my God is not finished with me yet. With God's help, I will develop a better attitude, and I will obliterate all traces of complaining from these lips. Amen!