Hi Jim.
I absolutely believe the source of all love is God. One must be careful to not simply switch out love and God as if they are the same, though.
- "God is not jealous or boastful" - but he is jealous and boastful. "...for I the Lord your God am a jealous God." (Exodus 20:5 ESV)
- "God does not insist on His own way" - but he does insist on his own way. "...for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me, declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things not yet done, saying, ‘My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all my purpose,’ (Isaiah 46:9-10 ESV)
- "God bears all things and endures all things." - but he does not bear and endure all things forever. Our hope of eternity is filled with expectation he will stop enduring his enemies and destroy them.
Indeed. These are never "one sided, only beneficial scriptural equations we deal with. There are many many examples of the dynamic you have rightfully observed above. I'd add to the list that God is not the Author of confusion, but confused the language of the people at the tower of Babel in Gen. 11. OR that God tempts no man, yet tempted Abraham in Gen. 22.
There are legitimate ways to harmonize these seeming conflicts.
Also, if "God's highest goal is that all of mankind spend eternity with Him.", then according to scriptures he will not accomplish his purpose; only the elect will spend eternity with him.
Jim, I grew up in the evangelical church and much of the presentation of the Gospel emphasized how important I was to God. It made much of me and neglected the infinite worth of God. I think the motive was to attract myself and others to the idea of becoming a Christian. (Who doesn't love the idea that "God has a wonderful plan for your life"?) The motive was good, but the method was absolutely wrong. It is not that I am somehow super-duper to God, it is that God is an unimaginably greatest treasure to be gained through the Good News of Jesus Christ. Enough of a treasure for a man that "in his joy he goes and sells all that he has" to acquire it. (Matthew 13:44 ESV)
Little side not: I have to smile at the irony of what Jesus said was his "wonderful plan" for Saul-turned-Paul:
But the Lord said to him, “Go, for he [Paul] is a chosen instrument of mine to carry my name before the Gentiles and kings and the children of Israel. For I will show him how much he must suffer for the sake of my name.” (Acts 9:15-16 ESV)
The Saul to Paul event is interesting. Paul's Apostolic doctrines stem from "how" Paul got to where he got from the start. It was certainly nothing that Paul did to "get there."
1 Timothy 1:13
Who was before a blasphemer, and a persecutor, and injurious: but
I obtained mercy, because I did it
ignorantly in unbelief.
Looks like a One Way street of direct intervention to me.
There is an O.T. principle that is laid out as follows:
Deuteronomy 32:39
See now that I, even I, am he, and there is no god with me:
I kill, and I make alive; I wound, and I heal: neither is there any that can deliver out of my hand.
Technically speaking, when we believed, we died and are made alive in and to Christ.
Colossians 3:3
For
ye are dead, and
your life is hid with Christ in God.
Paul laid out the intimacies of this, his flesh death in Romans 7:
11 For
sin,
taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me,
and by it
slew me.
Paul elaborates and expands on this theme, again, extensively, showing how "sin" still operated in his own flesh. Gal. 4:14 for example, culminating in his sights in Gal. 4:29 and Gal. 5:17, where in both cases Paul was speaking of the individual believer, not "the believer" and some other guy.