I have not abused anyone. Being autistic means that we call a spade a spade. We mean what we say and say what we mean. We do not take offence at anything another person says as we do not have the capacity to experience feelings.
I always watch what I put in writing because for me the most important thing is to tell the truth. If I can't do that I prefer not to speak. I have no faith in my opinion or anyone elses for that matter.
Just to help you understand the mind of an autistic person, a friend of ours has an autistic son and they were at the shopping centre one day and he said to his parents pointing to a particular woman, "that woman is fat."
He wasn't being rude, aggressive, demeaning or arrogant. All he was doing was telling his parents what he saw. There was no judgment in what he said.
The police love autistic witnesses. They know if they say they saw a man who was wearing a red beanie, they know that the suspect was wearing a red beanie beause they know that they deal in facts and nothing else.
The other thing is that if you contact any organisatioin that specialise in autism, they will terll you when it comes to relationships someone has to change and it has to be the other person because autistic people cannot change. Bear that in mind whe you sit in judgment on what I say and how I say it.
If you want me to be all nice and soft and have a don't rock the boat mentality it ain't going to happen. If you ban me all you are doing is depriving the other contributors of what I can contribute to the forum. As I said the number of likes I have got since being on here shows that a lot of people appreciate my contribution.
Not everyone but no one is perfect. We are all work in progress so if you want perfection best give up your role as moderator.
Hi Andy,
I know all about autism.
Everything you say above is true....
may I make a suggestion?
In your signature line, maybe you could write something to the effect that you have autism.
It'll make others be aware of the "problem". Another of our members does this, but autism is not the problem.
I just want to say that I know that everything you do you had to learn, one thing at a time...even what to say and what not to say.
I don't know how old you are or how far up on the spectrum you are....
but I know that you CAN control, somewhat, what you say or write.
MAYBE...it depends where you are on the spectrum and I'm not going to speculate.
I think it's wonderful that you're a born again Christian...my granddaughter is also.
She loves Jesus more than most persons do.
This is because she can express her feelings and she does have emotions,,,but this does not mean that YOU do.
Yes. I think a footnote in your signature line might be a good idea.
Just a suggestion.
I can't remember if I welcomed you to the forum..I think I did...
but anyway...