[__ Prayer __] Question and prayer request

[HelloNewbHere]

I’m so thankful I found a Christian forum. Otherwise I don’t think anyone would understand what I was trying to ask,so I can ask it plainly on here. I am a Christian, a woman who considers herself a lady and obeys the Lord and doesn’t fornicate and tries to stay out of “ intentional sin” because I’m in love with Jesus and want to please Him and be like Him and this must be obvious to men who are trying to jump in the bed with me, so, why do they keep texting me after I plainly say things like that to them? I say I am completely dependent on God, and refuse to be in a relationship like that. I am a loving understanding, soul and honestly I guess I come across as naïve? but my words are very sure and strong and never wavering that I am a Christian and they are barking up the wrong tree so to speak. But after a weeks time, they text me again. I told one of them (who asked me if I wanted to see photos of his private parts and I SAID N-O.) that he has absolutely no respect for women, and he has tried to talk to me four times since then. It doesn’t make any sense. I know they must be lonely or desperate? or something, but if they know they are not going to get this out of me, and I ignore their texts, why do they not leave me alone? Why not ask another woman? there are plenty of them out there. I’ve already told them N-O several times. I have this going on with three different men right now. When I am around them I don’t feel very safe. I can avoid two of the three of them now because they are no longer doing work for me, but there is one that will always be in my life because unfortunately he is family. I stay as safe as I can. I avoid being alone, unless he comes to my house and I have bug spray, mase, metal knuckles, a 45 gun, bear mace, and these things are hidden all around my house in a lot of specific places.(and a big, not so nice to men dog that I always have to put in a bedroom when he comes. I wish my dog would be good so that he could be out in the house with me). I cannot refuse him in my house, because my whole family will know, and not believe it, and they will all reject me. They already reject me as it is which is very painful and unfair and hard for me to comprehend, since I’m such a loving happy, forgiving soul. We all go to church together. Go figure. And forgiveness and loving others are talked about pretty much every Sunday. I believe it may be because I am joyful all the time. other family members have told me they are jealous of me and they look better than me and have more than me so it doesn’t make any sense to me. Anyways, getting off topic.. I want prayer for safety and for bad men to leave me alone. Thank you for your time.

 

[for_his_glory]

Hi HelloNewbHere and welcome to CF

Some men can be such pigs and will not take no for an answer. Thank God those two are out of your life. As far as the one who is a family member that's a little tougher, but keep praying for him that the Holy Spirit will convict him of his ways towards you. God will honor your faithful prayers. You are in my prayers as well for your safety and for the relationship you have with your family that that will turn around in your favor.

Looking forward in getting to know you better and sharing with each other. God bless.

 

[HelloNewbHere]

I WILL pray for him. I guess it’s because I’m in the middle of this mess that it never even occurred to me to pray for him. Maybe because I think it is hopeless. But this man is getting very old and weak. He may not have a lot of time to be saved. I will pray for his soul and conviction. Thank you for telling me to.
Also thank you. I will accept any prayers for my family’s salvation and their hearts to urge to be like the Lord and reconciliation. I fear the devil has such a hold on all of them. I don’t feel a lot of optimism but pray I will. God bless.
Thank you for your kindness.