lmw
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I am a single mother of a very very active 3 year old little boy who is not potty trained yet. The only male influence in his life is a young man from my church who comes every other weekend to spend time with him, and my brother who he sees maybe once every couple weeks. My husband chose to walk out on us in July of 2010 and chose not to see our son at all. He died 3 months ago.
My son will soon be screened for autism. I prayed hard that he wouldn't have to deal with the developmental issues his daddy had to deal with, ie bipolar disorder and autism, but we're facing this right now. If he is diagnosed with autism, he would fall on the high functioning end of the spectrum.
Goldfish have longer attention spans than my son. He is so busy and active. If I pull down his pants for him to go potty, he tears off the rest of his clothes and goes streaking through the house (outside on warm days too). We've (I live with my mother now) been trying for over a year now. Only now is Gunnar telling us he needs his diaper changed, but usually he will sit in it until I discover a surprise. Pullups are way too easy for him to get off. He has been waking up dry most mornings, but some times he is soaking wet. He never wakes up dry from a nap when he takes one. He gets stressed out instantly and screams if I even mention the potty!
Things are so up in the air right now with the screening process. Gunnar will start early education classes next month already, 4 days a week, 3 hrs a day. I was hoping he'd be potty trained before then, but no such luck.
I feel like a failure sometimes, especially after receiving certain reactions when people ask if he's potty trained yet. I use to explain the whole not having male influence and now he's possibly autistic... but I just try to avoid the topic altogether.
So I'm asking for tips. How to help the potty training process along with a 3 year old boy who bounces off of walls and has no desire to sit still on a potty.
Thanks in advance.
My son will soon be screened for autism. I prayed hard that he wouldn't have to deal with the developmental issues his daddy had to deal with, ie bipolar disorder and autism, but we're facing this right now. If he is diagnosed with autism, he would fall on the high functioning end of the spectrum.
Goldfish have longer attention spans than my son. He is so busy and active. If I pull down his pants for him to go potty, he tears off the rest of his clothes and goes streaking through the house (outside on warm days too). We've (I live with my mother now) been trying for over a year now. Only now is Gunnar telling us he needs his diaper changed, but usually he will sit in it until I discover a surprise. Pullups are way too easy for him to get off. He has been waking up dry most mornings, but some times he is soaking wet. He never wakes up dry from a nap when he takes one. He gets stressed out instantly and screams if I even mention the potty!
Things are so up in the air right now with the screening process. Gunnar will start early education classes next month already, 4 days a week, 3 hrs a day. I was hoping he'd be potty trained before then, but no such luck.
I feel like a failure sometimes, especially after receiving certain reactions when people ask if he's potty trained yet. I use to explain the whole not having male influence and now he's possibly autistic... but I just try to avoid the topic altogether.
So I'm asking for tips. How to help the potty training process along with a 3 year old boy who bounces off of walls and has no desire to sit still on a potty.
Thanks in advance.