Edward
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WOW!!! those must have been some foot rubs
mmm, not to brag, but they were. It started by accident long ago. I was trying to be nice and it was well received, so she began asking for them. Caught me on a day that I didn't feel like giving her one and later she remarked it wasn't as good as before. So I realized that the biggest key to giving a good massage is wanting to do it and not thinking of it as a chore. So I changed my mindset and it was 1000% better next time, almost unconsciously. I seen something in this so pursued it and added a few slight additions and voila', it became something special.
...about wanting to be there and do it...there's something there. A spiritual connection or energy is created, or they pick up on it or something. Just a wee bit of focus of the spirit or heart makes a difference. A BIG difference!