Re: I assume you therefore agree that God did not taste death of those He hates?
No, I don't agree.
The reason He hates them is because they won't abandon themselves and go to Him.
Re: I assume your definition of God's hate is "a volition to not favor"
That is one way to put it.
Hate is the antithesis of love.
Both are usually a reward for something or other.
In this particular case, God only hates some because they hate Him.
Aside: Kudos for providing a definition. Many people won't define the words they use and thus make the conversation confusing. I.E. most won't define "free will"
So, putting together yours thoughts (you can correct if I go wrong)
Premise 1: Hate means volition to not favor (I agree)
Premise 2: The greatest why to show favor to a man is to offer the life of infinite value for that man (Christ's death)
Premise 3: God died (tasted death) for everyone without exception (I disagree on this premise that you agree to)
Premise 4: God died for many He hates
Conclusion: God showed the
greatest favor (love) to many men the He
does not favor (hates)
This is a contradiction. God favors those He does not favor. Why do you disagree?
I see later in your response that you don't believe God knows who will accept His offer. That is a logical possibility given the premises.
Jesus paid the tab, but some want things their own way.
If Jesus 'paid the tab', then why does anyone go to hell. This seems to be a contradiction. I think you probably mean:
Jesus death + our faith + our works(according to some) = paid the tab
Jesus died for anyone and everyone that wants to live forever.
How is the 1282 Indian saved that Christ died for? ... or was Christ death useless in that case? Although in your post you later say God doesn't know who will accept His offer in the future, God does know that many will not be able to accept the offer as He must know many will never hear of Christ which is necessary knowledge to take advantage of the offer. (One must have faith in Christ to be saved and one must know of Christ to believe upon Him).
He died for folks not yet born, without knowing who will or won't accept His offer.
So, God does not know the future? God is not All Knowing? This would contradict God's immutability as He knows now what at one time He did not know. His wisdom would be improved as wisdom is dependent on knowledge. An continuous improvement in wisdom means God is NOT All Wise. Can a being be eternal if that being changes. God would be now what He was not at another time as He has changed. He is different, He has a different understanding. God is, as a result of your statement, dependent upon man for knowledge and upon time for knowledge. God is not independent of time, but trapped in time, though time be created by God. Interesting. Perhaps God didn't create time? Some other being created time and put God in it; but the would make that being God and our God a mere creation. (Aside: I am just amusing myself)
This is a minority opinion ... which doesn't make it wrong necessarily)
Aside: I grant that this partially solves the issue of dying in vain (dying for no reason)
Aside 2: It would be a sin to misrepresent Christ by saying He is not all knowing if He was all knowing. If it is true you never sin, then Christ must not know the future in regards to whom will believe.
Aside 3: God is pretty good a guess at the future given His prophesies.