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The Screaming Room (for letting off steam in a healthy controlled way when you are feeling angry)

HeIsRisen2018

HeIsRisen2018

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I figured that since I'm feeling angry right now, this would be a good thread to post so that whenever I am feeling angry I can come here and let out some steam and tell you why. So this is why I'm feeling angry today. I'm not sure who all saw my post yesterday in Christian Talk and Advice, but here's an update on it. First I will go ahead and post the link to it.



https://christianforums.net/Fellowship/index.php?threads/am-i-overreacting.77254/





So here's the deal, that same said roleplayer who apologized to me yesterday did the same stupid thing to me today! :mad He's a really good roleplayer but how hard is it to tell somebody that you're busy before you go off totally deserting them!?! I mean seriously!!! :angry3Am I being unreasonable here or not!?! Don't get me wrong, he's a really good roleplayer but I am going to tell him when I see him again that the next time it happens I'm done! :grumpyThen I'm just going to have to find somebody else to roleplay with. It's like I posted yesterday in the above link, if somebody makes me a promise then I expect them to keep it! Alright rant over! :angry



 
Update: He apologized again and now things are a LOT better between us. This is still a very good place to get all of your anger and stress out.
 
I am glad things are better. I suppose with roleplay it helps to have general courtesy rules and such in place, too.

Right now, as immature as it may sound, I would love a minute to scream, but considering many factors, typing is a better option.

It is too hot to go outside, and I am stir crazy as can be (have not been out in weeks. I would step out at night if I were afraid for my safety). We have a bunch of outside errands to run before we move in less than two weeks. Not sure how we will run these errands unless the weather lets up. The lights at our complex are so bright that my older child often refuses to sleep because she thinks the sun is still up (even though we have sheets over the blinds, it is not enough to block the blinding lights)...-sigh-.

I want time to go faster so we can move already. Each day closer we get feels like it goes by slower and slower...kind of want to pull my hair. My sleeping schedule is so off and the lights outside make it hard to get into a deep sleep without an eye cover or wearing orange lens glasses at night.

We never exactly fit in here and neither did my kids so there isn't much support nearby. Staying inside takes a toll on the kids, too, because they have all this energy.

My husband and I have been on opposite sleep schedules so it is hard to find time to even talk.

This is lonely. This is miserable. This is stressful. I do my daily devotions and Bible reads, but some days I struggle and the last thing I want to look at is another Bible verse because I know what it will say...be patient, be forgiving, be loving, and don't be a Jonah.

This feels like the worst year of my life
...it has been too much all compacted in a few months. I feel I am on a speeding freight train that has no breaks...one thing after another and not small things, either. It has been one mountain after another without much break.

I see the hope at the end, but it feels like it is taking forever to get there.
 
Luminous_Rose said:
I am glad things are better. I suppose with roleplay it helps to have general courtesy rules and such in place, too.

Right now, as immature as it may sound, I would love a minute to scream, but considering many factors, typing is a better option.

It is too hot to go outside, and I am stir crazy as can be (have not been out in weeks. I would step out at night if I were afraid for my safety). We have a bunch of outside errands to run before we move in less than two weeks. Not sure how we will run these errands unless the weather lets up. The lights at our complex are so bright that my older child often refuses to sleep because she thinks the sun is still up (even though we have sheets over the blinds, it is not enough to block the blinding lights)...-sigh-.

I want time to go faster so we can move already. Each day closer we get feels like it goes by slower and slower...kind of want to pull my hair. My sleeping schedule is so off and the lights outside make it hard to get into a deep sleep without an eye cover or wearing orange lens glasses at night.

We never exactly fit in here and neither did my kids so there isn't much support nearby. Staying inside takes a toll on the kids, too, because they have all this energy.

My husband and I have been on opposite sleep schedules so it is hard to find time to even talk.

This is lonely. This is miserable. This is stressful. I do my daily devotions and Bible reads, but some days I struggle and the last thing I want to look at is another Bible verse because I know what it will say...be patient, be forgiving, be loving, and don't be a Jonah.

This feels like the worst year of my life
...it has been too much all compacted in a few months. I feel I am on a speeding freight train that has no breaks...one thing after another and not small things, either. It has been one mountain after another without much break.

I see the hope at the end, but it feels like it is taking forever to get there.
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Wow, that's too bad. Praying that everything works out for you. Tons of hugs and Christian love headed your way. Incoming! :hug
 
Luminous_Rose said:
I am glad things are better. I suppose with roleplay it helps to have general courtesy rules and such in place, too.

Right now, as immature as it may sound, I would love a minute to scream, but considering many factors, typing is a better option.

It is too hot to go outside, and I am stir crazy as can be (have not been out in weeks. I would step out at night if I were afraid for my safety). We have a bunch of outside errands to run before we move in less than two weeks. Not sure how we will run these errands unless the weather lets up. The lights at our complex are so bright that my older child often refuses to sleep because she thinks the sun is still up (even though we have sheets over the blinds, it is not enough to block the blinding lights)...-sigh-.

I want time to go faster so we can move already. Each day closer we get feels like it goes by slower and slower...kind of want to pull my hair. My sleeping schedule is so off and the lights outside make it hard to get into a deep sleep without an eye cover or wearing orange lens glasses at night.

We never exactly fit in here and neither did my kids so there isn't much support nearby. Staying inside takes a toll on the kids, too, because they have all this energy.

My husband and I have been on opposite sleep schedules so it is hard to find time to even talk.

This is lonely. This is miserable. This is stressful. I do my daily devotions and Bible reads, but some days I struggle and the last thing I want to look at is another Bible verse because I know what it will say...be patient, be forgiving, be loving, and don't be a Jonah.

This feels like the worst year of my life
...it has been too much all compacted in a few months. I feel I am on a speeding freight train that has no breaks...one thing after another and not small things, either. It has been one mountain after another without much break.

I see the hope at the end, but it feels like it is taking forever to get there.
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The main thing is that you will get there and move onward. My husband and I live in the country and when feeling the pressures of anger I sit in my living room when he isn't home and just scream until I feel better. Thank God no one can hear me.
 
for_his_glory said:
The main thing is that you will get there and move onward. My husband and I live in the country and when feeling the pressures of anger I sit in my living room when he isn't home and just scream until I feel better. Thank God no one can hear me.
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It is nice to be able to do that. I feel I often have to at least pretend I have it all together for the kids. Apartment living gets in the way of it, too. Although shouting from a mountain top sounds good about now.

Focusing on moving forward, but it doesn't always come easy.
 
Luminous_Rose said:
It is nice to be able to do that. I feel I often have to at least pretend I have it all together for the kids. Apartment living gets in the way of it, too. Although shouting from a mountain top sounds good about now.

Focusing on moving forward, but it doesn't always come easy.
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That which not kills us makes us stronger. No, it doesn't always come easy, but when it passes we exhale.
 
I'm not angry or anything today,.. I'm just really stressed out. So AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! :shock That felt a LOT better!! After all, this is still considered the screaming room? :lol
 
It takes a LOT to get me angry, but I can get stressed easily. REALLY easily.

Feeling pretty good right now, I'm hoping I don't need this thread anytime soon.
 
-sigh- AC isn't getting below 80 degrees....24 hour maintenance apparently doesn't make house calls this late....it is over 90 degrees out. So hot D= Although I thank God for ceiling fans! Hoping it doesn't heat up too fast tomorrow.
 
Well,.. I am feeling a lot calmer now that I came back home from Yoga, but I still have a little bit of steam to let off so I figured that I would. Alright so now today there was this really creepy thing that happened. Actually, it happened a couple of nights ago but I just received the latest message today and I was really freaked out about it. On my profile of Roleplay.me it specifically states that I am engaged and then when I innocently told somebody that I was chatting with that I was going to bed, he just assumed that that meant that I wanted him to sleep with him. :mad




Like what the heck!? So even after I told him no that I wasn't interested he still thought that I implied it and I got so creeped out by it. He isn't the first one online who has been stalking me and trying to make a pass on me either even though I clearly state that I'm engaged. Anyways, I wound up blocking him but even though I got it all taken care of it still freaked me out big time.:eek2
 
There are a lot of creeps out there that like to prey on women especially when it comes to the internet. It's good that you blocked him. You might also want to change your user name and password for this sight.
 
Luminous_Rose said:
Although shouting from a mountain top sounds good about now.
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I have done that when I was living in Colorado. I had just bought myself a brand new 22 rifle, a River 10/22. It was small game season so what better outing for shooting your new 22 rifle?! Ye ha lets go. There was quite a bit of snow on the ground but it was nice and sunny.

I was there all day and when it started to get dusk I figured I better get back to the truck...I was Pretty far away, lol. It got dark fast! I was picking my way down the mountain and the snow was more visible than the trail. The problem was, I would take a step and it was a hill underneath so I fell down...about 20 times! At first it was, oh don't mess up your new rifle, so I'd take the hit to save the rifle. It wasn't long before it became more important to save Edward instead! I turned that rifle around in my hands and began using it as a probe and walking stick so maybe I wouldn't fall anymore stumbling around in the dark. It was one of those times that I fell down that I just let loose with a roaring scream. I betcha coulda heard it for 5 miles, lol.

I felt better, lol. You shoulda seen that wood 22 stock after I got home, it was all scratched up. But I lived to tell the tale!
 
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