Dora, there are a lot of things I was thinking as I caught up with this thread, but I didn't want to throw that all at you. But since you brought it up...
I don't care if she took off with someone she knew or didn't know. If they weren't abusing her, that's nothing to do to her parents. I was thinking "spoiled and rebellious", and it was just a hunch. If she was so afraid of them looking at her texts, I wondered what kinda stuff she was hiding on it.
I was thinking drugs, booze, whisking off with some older guy... All these were presumptuous, but I read the news. :gah
Most of all, I was thinking, Lord, bring her home. Show her she belongs at home with no more of these tantrums, and eventually on a day of Your Choosing, bring her to Your Home.
Joshua (16) has hormonal flare-ups once in a while where he says he has it so bad here with us. (It's not so bad here. My wife and our daughters aren't as mean as me.

) But I've had times when I had to go through a laundry list of what we do for him EVERY DAY, where we drive him, what we pick up for him, WHO we pick up for him, that we do LOVE him... and he calms down. He knows we love him! Kudos to teens who never take their parents for granted. Most do, but to do what she did would call for serious intervention. If they can't find it within themselves to say "no" to some things, they're going to have to learn.