jasoncran said:this was during the marriage to me, when she was divorced from her ex she had house till six yrs later, she was harrased so badly by him that she moved. and sold the house.shad said:jasoncran said:add i will add that her youngest did help her when she stayed with her.
Why not live together instead of transgressing Jesus' commandment? Of course these are all retrospect.
it was so bad that the maniac, would place nails in the driveway and night and would do it almost every day. even with the videos of them there and there wasnt enough to arrest him , but she didnt doubt who did it. he told her that if he cant live there with her , no one would.
Yes, this kind of disaster is just one of the tragedies in wrongful marriages. I am only talking about what Jesus says, Jesus says if you marry divorced one you are committing adultery. Why did you have to marry her against Jesus' teachings? Were you both unbeliever when you got married to each other? We got married with wrong reasons too and paying the consequences even now. And our first two children were the victims of our wrongful marriage too. Thank God that one of them became faithful Christian. The other one is still hypocritical Christian without any godly fruit. You should have been given this kind of advise from your pastor when got married. It seems that your pastor neglected his responsibility as your shepherd.
Instead of making excuses one after another you should honestly admit you went against Jesus by marrying her.