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Waiting Until Marriage?

Me I was brought up as a Catholic but as I grew older and became a teen and adult my religious views changed and I just have my own beliefs. Anyway I have been told by my parents and from TV and movies that Virgins should wait until marriage to have sexual intercourse. Now I have done other stuff just never sexual intercourse because I am waiting until marriage for that to happen.

So my question and comments here are that do men and women even believe in this anymore? I know I do and I know I am going to wait until marriage to have sex. Even if I get married at 30 or 40 and I am still a Virgin. I am only 26 going on 27 and know that I am still young and should be enjoying life and not worrying about getting married or finding a partner etc.

But this thing about waiting to have sex does sometime's bother me because everyone brings me down about it saying how I should not do it. No guys and a lot of guys I have tried to date don't want to wait. So what are your thoughts on this and what I should do?
There are very,very few single women who are virgins in our world now.That is a precious gift to give your husband when you marry and visa versa.The couple have to make a commitment to God to remain pure into they become man and wife.It is not easy.You just have to be responsible and not put yourself in the position where tempation takes over.Even if you have to ask a friend or parent go chaparone.I know this sounds very old fashioned but temptation is very powerful.Of course alot of guys do not want to wait and alot of times you just have to say "Hey wait a minute here Bub" :lol.They might even tell you that if you love them you will get intimate with them.Don't listen to that line.It is as old as Moses. It is good to wait to get married until you are ready.God will bring the right person to you if you pray for him.
 
Whatever alright I don't wanna hear your lectures etc. I have my own beliefs just accept it.
 
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Whatever alright I don't wanna hear your lectures etc. I have my own beliefs just accept it.
miss Im only trying to help you, you dont know what your missing i wont force it on you but theres no need to get nasty I have been only kind to you
 
miss Im only trying to help you, you dont know what your missing i wont force it on you but theres no need to get nasty I have been only kind to you
Yes,I know.If ponygals did not want our advise then why did she ask?
 
I think she was fine until I told her her way was wrong but its okay I dont mind I just hope she finds that special someone so she can be happy
Well,it is wrong.If you would ask a Christian and they would say it is fine that would put up a big red flag :erm
 
I don't mind your advice but you forcing your views on me and changing me I do not like. Everyone is different so accept that and stop changing people to fit your views etc.
 
I don't mind your advice but you forcing your views on me and changing me I do not like. Everyone is different so accept that and stop changing people to fit your views etc.
just to be clear I didnt force it on you I only informed you of it. If it offends you so much its not my beliefs that upset you its most likely you not wanting to change and to each his own but if you ever do accept God remember my words and give it everything you got with a burning passion because I believe in you:yes
 
Well,it is wrong.If you would ask a Christian and they would say it is fine that would put up a big red flag :erm
Its not about me so if ppl are mean to me for helping them thats fine because god and them are my reason for being. I will gladly give them my treasures in heaven and gladly become the least in heaven and earth. they must become greater i must become less
 
I don't mind your advice but you forcing your views on me and changing me I do not like. Everyone is different so accept that and stop changing people to fit your views etc.
No one is forcing anything on you.There is not gun at your head.Blain and I can tell you what we think since you asked.Then it is your choice.Life is full of choices.
 
Yeah thats what I was saying. And sorry for overreacting alright? I still think I am going to be single for a few more years and I don't want that. I don't know if I should be out looking for him or wait for him to find me.
 
I don't mind your advice but you forcing your views on me and changing me I do not like. Everyone is different so accept that and stop changing people to fit your views etc.
You have come to a Christian site by your choice no one forced you to come here... please be respectful to the beliefs of this site.
 
Yeah thats what I was saying. And sorry for overreacting alright? I still think I am going to be single for a few more years and I don't want that. I don't know if I should be out looking for him or wait for him to find me.
LOL its quite alright no harm done, Im not sure what you should maybe just wait patiently while keeping an eye out. You in your 20s right? thats still pretty young so no worries
 
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