What do I say to her?

[jasoncran]

Hm maybe I'll just wait another ten years then.

Thinking about getting laid is fine. I'd be worried if a guy who is dating me does NOT think about that at all. Sex is one important pillar of a happy marriage.
But thinking like: if I give her flowers and pay for her dinner and treat her like a princess she must in return have sex with me because I invested so much into her, is really a weird approach. That's like considering girls materialistic and one-dimensional beings, almost like machines.
It's probably a remnant of days when women needed a man to financially support and aprovide for her, so all the gifts and dinner invitations were proof of his financial fitness. But nowadays women can provide for themselves and even for their entire families if necessary, so a guy would be wise to acknowledge times have changed.

i understand that but women DO work like that. i hate to say in the world women do that. i was ackward with women and still am and i observed that in western American women. i hate that. i see still when i heard singles (lost) talk.

 

[jasoncran]

why beat around the bush. I always forward and I hated the dating game. my first date with my wife was simply a cup of coffee at denny's that after talking to her at her job(dillards). I asked her and told her I liked her and also we talked about what we like to do and goals.

 

[jasoncran]

YOUNG girls do but not older ones. one can have romance and say what one wants. I have.

 

[jasoncran]

spock,lol. an old nickname for me.