- Sep 18, 2012
You were taught wrong, my Sister! The 'romantic' sexual intent is the heart of the meaning. Think of a cougar. A hunter, on the prowl...ready to jump the prey! da da da...
The term cougar means a very good looking women for her age usually 45 and up. Plus should we be lusting after others no matter how old they are as this is actually a fine line you are walking by what you are saying. I'm not saying you are lusting by the overtone can suggest it. It's alright to say they are a good looking man or woman and that's as far as it needs to go.Here's Laine Hardy btw,.. the man that officially turned me into a cougar.
There is nothing wrong with having friends that are younger even if they are children as a child will look up to an adult for friendship. When it comes to the cyber world I would not be sending them hugs and kisses as a parent might recognize that as a pedophile or someone into human trafficking.Okay so what about my other questions then? Do you think it's alright for me to have a friendly/brother or sister relationship with somebody who is underage?
Another definition of a cougar is a guy calling her a hot mama. That is lusting after a woman who is in her middle ages and you are far from being a cougar as you are still very young yet.
There is nothing wrong with having friends that are younger even if they are children as a child will look up to an adult for friendship. When it comes to the cyber world I would not be sending them hugs and kisses as a parent might recognize that as a pedophile or someone into human trafficking.
noIt's just a question that's been on my mind since I saw this Dr. Phil clip. Obviously he's talking about the alcohol being a problem, but if it doesn't include sexual contact I really don't think that it would be illegal. Definitely unwise because it could lead to something else, but I don't think it would wind you up behind bars for it. Also, I do think that there is a difference between a passionate kiss and a friendly kiss on the cheek.
your getting sound advice it would be in your favor to take hold of it . the world we live in is changing perverts on every corner just laying in wait to take advantage. you can leave it or take it your choice .. what i can tell you is you have a lot to learn .far as that goes i learn everyday .. btw i seldom post in here .do you even have any idea how pedophiles prey on people on the net..they lure them in.. i see young ladies in your age range and younger that are missing .if i ruffled your feathers so be it you want to be treated like adult .then take adult adviceThe kiss thing I get even if it's only a friendly virtual kiss on the cheek. However since that happened once a long time ago, hopefully I don't have anything to worry about. Worrying about virtual hugs seems a bit paranoid to me though. :/
no as you have no business doing this ........period read proverbs chapter 1
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+1&version=MSG this is from the message . your fiance is setting in prison your playing footsies on the net or how ever . your playing with fire
just chill out i never said cheating i knew you would get mad . you say never it can happen. but nevertheless you do as you please no one can tell you anythingHonestly! I am not playing footsies I'm being friendly! I would NEVER cheat on my fiancee and he knows that!
Yeah well, maybe the term is changing meaning. Words do that through the generations. Us older folks know the term as an attractive middle aged woman looking to "hook up" with a younger man.