This is true to a degree. Differing opinions and even strong disagreement is not wrong in itself.We both have our own understandings and will just have to work them out for ourselves and see how it all plays out in the end.
In fact strong dispute in Scripture is what the apostles and men like Apollos did on a near daily basis. We are called upon to correct one another with honest handling of the words of God.
When I am corrected, I now have a better understanding of the teaching. And when I am able to correct someone else, I still get a better understanding of doctrine and prophecy.
In our case, I have learned something new by seeing an end to the debate about number of resurrections of the dead.
The very fact of the rapture includes both resurrected dead saints and changed living saints, shows without doubt there cannot possibly be only one resurrection of all people on earth. Simply because the first resurrection is alongside changed living saints on earth. Not to mention the man Jesus has already risen from the dead.
I do have a strict rule of interpretation: if by repeating the words alone without comment, and it must be symbolic, such as Rev 12:1-4, 17:1-6 then it is. If by repeating the words alone, and it doesn't have to be symbolic, then it's not, such as Rev 1:9-18, 19:11-21.
Part 2 of the rule is that a piece of prophecy being symbolic, does not make the whole prophecy symbolic. Such as the sword proceeding out of the Lord's mouth does not mean His meeting with John on Patmos, and His ruling over nations is only symbolic. He met with John on Patmos exactly as described, and He will smite the nations and rule them with rod of iron at His second coming.
Whether the spirit of His mouth actually looks like a sword, or only cuts like one, then so be it. I'm open to both.
Absolutely. Debating prophecy is one thing, but so long as it does not include false doctrine of another gospel than that of the apostles, then it should not at all interfere with Christian fellowship.The important thing is to be ready now for His return, nobody knows. Keep your candle burning.
We only refuse company with them, whose faith includes doing unrighteous works of the flesh. (1 Cor 5:11)
I see no such case of that here. God bless you.