Dude named Louis wrote:
You know, great minds have wrestled and debated these matters for centuries. Godly men (and women) who love the Lord and seek truth. I love my Arminian brothers, I understand how they get to their conclusions. I have different interpretations of the texts and come to different conclusions. Yet the friends I have who are not reformed (I prefer Reformed to Calvanist) understand that we have so much in common—they don't treat me as someone who believes in a false gospel. They realize at the end of the day that we both realize that we are sinners saved by grace through faith in Christ.
Well, hopefully, folks, I won’t offend anyone with my first post here on this forum. After having sat through a night with James White defending Calvinism and watching a debate between him and George Bryson, trust me, I’ve had it with sarcasm and everything that I say here will be straight from the heart. My wife and I live in the Riverside area of Southern Cal. and for several years have been searching for a church that will turn away from contemporary Christianity and return to a reverence for God and desire for His holiness. It’s been almost two years now since we’ve walked into our church and felt any type of reverence or attitude of worship. Our pastor teaches Biblically, but very shallow and not really for the mature Christian. An occasional joke in the form of an illustration and regular designed-for-sermons illustrations are used frequently and the USC Trojans and the Anaheim Angels are often interjected into the announcements and the sermon. Holiness is minimalized and it is strongly suggested that all you have to do is just be Christ-like and don’t get caught up pursuing Holiness itself, because it might lead to legalism. The “cannedâ€, “7/11†contemporary worship music seems to meet 98% of the congregational needs and a hymn will very, very rarely be sung Sunday morning and if it is played and sung, it will have a modern “country†style and feel. The sermons have been based on New T. for over 4 years now and the Old T., and the God thereof, are very rarely mentioned. Fortunately we have access to a lot of great teaching on the internet. Our present church is a non-denom. spin off of Calvary Chapels and so far, is our last stop after an extensive search throughout the Inland Empire for a church that would meet our needs. It seems like I may have an “I†problem, I know… but for quite a while now we have been praying that God would just lead us to the church that He wants us in and so far have not felt Him leading us elsewhere. This issue regarding Calvinism has been on our hearts for at least 2 years and we have truly prayed continuously about it. After the James White debate, I wanted nothing to do with those “egotistical, self-promoting, cold hearted, sarcastic†Calvinists!
But after a lot of prayer and some more searching, I realized that he didn’t represent the mass of the Reformed Theology, probably one of those “Hypersâ€. Since then we have visited the only Reformed Church in Riverside that I know of and discovered that at this church the worship and teaching is the purist and closest to what our hearts desire. Now, none of the “5 points’ have been addressed in the sermons when we’ve been there and no one has quizzed us on “TULIP†yet, but we’ve only been there 2 or 3 times. I can’t seem to get past the “Free Will†issues and still see Calvinism as pretty much a robotic thing where God created X amount of people, some plucked out of darkness and given eternal life and the rest of them still in ignorance, never having known that there was an option, being sent straight to hell in that ignorance. Personally I do not like the terminology “Calvinistâ€. It seems to indicate to me that there are a bunch of individuals running around that put more credence in Calvin than they do the Word of God and I don’t want to be known as anything but a Christian.
So, with all that said, Louis Dude, I just want you to know that I really appreciate you and your honesty and the spirit in which you post. I am still searching for all of these truths that have been posted and talked about here and have many thoughts and questions about the Reformed Theology… I love the reverence and deep teaching that I’ve experienced so far and long for a congregation that desires it also, but from all of my experience with those who would call themselves Calvinists, I think I would like to stay away from them for now until I have a little more understanding, possibly.
Also if anyone has any recommendations for a church family out here in Riverside, I sure would appreciate that info! Thank you one and all for your posts…great knowledge, great education!!!