May I suggest that you attempt to prove your point by showing that the Greek Verb Tense used by Paul in 1Cor 13:8-10 indicates something that began in the past, continues through today and that this from-the-past/through-the-present/and-continuing action will culminate sometime in the future? The way I read it is that we have seen and are seeing through a glass darkly (now and in the past), but when "the Perfect" is come we shall no longer see in that manner but instead will see "face to face" (in the future). This does not indicate that my sense of the continuing tense of the Greek was being used, but as I say, I am no expert.
It has more to do with the understanding of the Greek subject "perfect" and its contrast with the implied "partial" in Paul's writings,
At issue is whether “perfect” is quantitative or qualitative. That is, whether “perfect” means a completing of what was incomplete, or whether “perfect” means a perfecting of what was imperfect. The word for “perfect,”
teleios in the Greek, in 1 Corinthians 13:10 has a well-established meaning of “complete.” A form of the verb is used in John 19:30, and is translated "finished" in Christ's declaration from the cross as He gives up His spirit. Likewise, Paul never uses
teleios to mean absolute perfection anywhere else in his writings, and particularly not here, as Paul does not write of the return of Christ, but our preparation -- becoming complete in Him -- before His return. The completion of the God’s revelation to the world through His written word, inspired through the apostles, fits Paul’s usage of
teleios much better.
Understanding teleios in 1 Corinthians 13:10 as “complete” makes more sense than “perfect” because of the contrast with “partial.” The completed Scripture is the reason why the partial, or incomplete, prophecy and knowledge are done away, for they are no longer necessary. This is better than trying to contrast the perfection of Christ’s return with the imperfection of prophecy and knowledge. Prophecy is not imperfect, it is rather incomplete. This then consistently views both “in part” and “perfect” as quantitative, rather than “in part” as quantitative and “perfect” as qualitative.
In other words, since prophecy is not partly perfect, but rather part of a whole, it makes more sense to understand “perfect” as “complete.” We know in part before the completion of the New Testament (1 Corinthians 13:9) and with the completion of the canon the partial revelation of prophecy will be done away (1 Corinthians 13:10).
Also, 1 Corinthians 13:11 describes a development from childhood to maturity, which is not instantaneous but gradual. This does not fit the return of Christ. It rather fits the gradual reduction of prophecy as the New Testament was being written and the apostles and prophets passed on.
Verse 12 of 1 Corinthians 13 is why most interpret this passage as referring to the return of Christ. Phrases like “face to face” and “knowing fully” can make people jump to this conclusion. However, it is important to note that even if 1 Corinthians 13:12 is speaking about the return of Christ this does not undermine the view that tongues will end with the completion of God’s revelation with the apostolic age. The partial being done away does not need to mean that we then know fully (1 Corinthians 13:12). This final knowledge could be a separate occasion at the coming of Christ with 1 Corinthians 13:11 describing the increasing completeness of God’s revelation and 13:12 describing the absolute completeness at the return of Christ.
However the better explanation is to view 1 Corinthians 13:12 as teaching that with the completion of the biblical revelation,
we will know ourselves fully, as we are fully known. The metaphor of the mirror, the Greek
esopron, is used only in one other place in the New Testament, in James 1:23 where it refers to God’s revelation in the Bible. Plus, we look at ourselves in a mirror, not at God. Also, when the phrase “face to face” is used about God and man in the Bible, it normally means God’s revelation to man, not God’s fellowship with man. God’s complete revelation enables us to see ourselves as in a mirror face to face, completely, rather than as in a mirror dimly, partially. With God’s complete revelation, we are able to understand God’s view of us in a way not possible before. We must remember, His view of us is much more important than our own view of ourselves, because He knows us better than even we know ourselves.
Finally, this view explains the contrast of 1 Corinthians 13:13. In contrast to the three gifts which will not endure throughout the church age (prophecy, tongues and knowledge) are the three virtues which will endure throughout the age (faith, hope and love). This temporal understanding of the virtues is further affirmed when we learn that love is the greatest, in that it alone is permanent while faith and hope will be fulfilled when we see Christ face to face (cf. 2 Corinthians 5:6-8; Romans 8:24-25).
If prophecy and knowledge will be done away with the canon of Scripture complete, then it follows that the ceasing of tongues will occur also at that time since they are grouped together in verse eight. The significance of the terms “cease” for tongues and “done away” for knowledge and prophecy is in regard to the process of how the cessation will occur, not with regard to timing of when the cessation will occur. This minor distinction is due to the nature of tongues as validating sign of the messenger and message of God’s direct revelation. After God ends the revelation of knowledge and prophecy, the evidence affirming the revelation is no longer necessary and thus ceases to exist all by itself. The ceasing of tongues as taught in 1 Corinthians 13:8 is the natural result of the end of God’s special revelation in the age of the apostles.
Now, you may ask, why am I so adamant in my defense of Paul declaring those three particular gifts dead? Because the misunderstanding of tongues as taught biblically versus the method by which they are practiced today cause great schism and division in the church.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has allowed the pagan religious practice of ecstatic utterances into the public and private worship of the true God.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has greatly diminished the appreciation for the significance of the miraculous gift of tongues that God gave in the apostolic era.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has resulted in a great confusion over the true meaning of tongues in the Bible.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has caused a division in the universal church and in many local churches over this issue.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has caused Christians who do not practice charismatic tongues speaking to be considered by charismatics as not being baptized with the Holy Spirit. The result of this is those believers in charismatic churches who are not practicing their ecstatic babbling are led to believe they do not have the power of the Holy Spirit.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has caused churches that do not practice charismatic tongues speaking to be considered cold and lifeless.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has hurt the ministry of prayer among those who in a misguided attempt to communicate with God are babbling.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has encouraged an unhealthy mystical element of spirituality to exist within Christianity. This is a failed attempt to meet our spiritual hunger.
- The misunderstanding of the biblical gift of tongues has caused unbelievers to think just what Paul said they would think when they heard communication that no one understood...”you are mad!”
These problems should be significant enough to make us unapologetic in our loving opposition to the modern tongues movement.