We'd first have to agree that the Baptism of the Holy Spirit was required for the operation of any of the 9 Gifts of the Holy Spirit. Not all believe this, some believe that the operation of the Gifts of the Holy Spirit were used only during the first century to aid in the setting up of the church (Cessationists). Some accept that the Baptism of the Holy Spirit is for today (Continual-ism), and that the Gifts of the Holy Spirit, such as the Gift of Faith, the Gift of Miracles, the Gift of Tongues, Interpretation, the Gift of Wisdom, Gift of Knowledge, etc. are given to Spirit-filled (those who have been baptized in the Holy Spirit) operation "until the perfect is come" - or "until knowledge is passed away" -- but there is one more hurdle to overcome.
Some believe that there are two aspects of tongues. One aspect is that it is a "sign of the infilling" of the Holy Spirit, that believers will speak in tongues when they are Baptized in the Holy Spirit. Those who believe this equate the prayer language they receive when they were baptized in the Holy Spirit with the baptism itself. There is a Scriptural case for this but there is debate about it. So then the reasoning goes that if tongues are a sign of the Baptism of the Holy Spirit, and if one needs to be baptized before the 9 Gifts of the Holy Spirit (like discernment or wisdom) can be manifested then we effectively see tongues first then other gifts.
I personally do not believe that tongues must be spoken (in every case) for a Christian to be baptized in the Holy Spirit, but can support the case that speaking in tongues does demonstrate having been filled with the Holy Ghost, just like Peter who said he knew they were baptized in the Holy Spirit because he heard them speak in tongues. I could go along with the idea that it is the norm for people to speak in tongues when filled, but take exception when others preach that tongues are a required sign of the infilling.