Greetings,
It's time to put away childish things. Let us consider instead what men and women in this day and age are joining together for. It isn't just to reproduce. Paul has stated that being single is to be preferred, that this (being single) requires less focus on worldly things. We are to focus on the things of God, and having a spiritual focus, we are admonished to depart from bickering. To set aside struggles and live peaceably with each other. Resurrecting old battles (gender, race, me-first struggles) is going back to the vomit of the worldly ways we practiced before being saved.
Instead of joining into worldly gender debates (or other such foolishness), shall we (men and women, married and single) not rather focus on those things hidden in Christ from the beginning and now revealed? The bible clearly commands husbands to love their wives [as Christ loves the church]. When did Jesus ever (even though he has all creation under Him) - but when did he EVER attempt to lord it over his followers. He is lowly and meek and easily approached, elsewise who could be saved?
The mystery has been explained. Why pretend we don't understand? We hear and fail to hear because the parable (although obvious to some) also remains unclear to some. That's the intent of the parable though - so that truth can be taught even to those who most need it. What is the mystery that Paul spoke of?
He spoke of marriage, yes but then said that he wasn't speaking about a man and a woman, but rather he spoke of Christ and the church. The Greek word, "mysterion" was used - and they had specific notions about that as well. It's not like an Agatha Christie Murder Mystery - where we are held in suspense but instead more like, "Here then, a mystery --> Now revealed."
When we consider that we approach the day and time that has been spoken of since the beginning, and as we walk together toward the appointed time it becomes ever needful to turn from sin and follow God who will reveal and heal. Only then can we (walking together in peace) follow after our Lord.
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[Ephesians 5:32 KJV] - This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
[Ephesians 5:30-33 KJV] - For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.
[Ephesians 6:19 KJV] - And for me, that utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly, to make known the mystery of the gospel,
[Ephesians 6:12-19 KJV] - For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high [places]. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace; Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints; And for me, that utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly, to make known the mystery of the gospel,
[Colossians 1:26 KJV] - [Even] the mystery which hath been hid from ages and from generations, but now is made manifest to his saints:
[Colossians 1:10-12, 24-29 KJV] - That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God; Strengthened with all might, according to his glorious power, unto all patience and longsuffering with joyfulness; Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light: ... Who now rejoice in my sufferings for you, and fill up that which is behind of the afflictions of Christ in my flesh for his body's sake, which is the church: Whereof I am made a minister, according to the dispensation of God which is given to me for you, to fulfil the word of God; [Even] the mystery which hath been hid from ages and from generations, but now is made manifest to his saints: To whom God would make known what [is] the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles; which is Christ in you, the hope of glory: Whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus: Whereunto I also labour, striving according to his working, which worketh in me mightily.