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[thisnumbersdisconnected]

I think I should just give my desires to God since He loves me. I know He will provide.

Absolutely! He'll take care of delivering the man He has chosen for you into you life. Believe it or not, it happens ... a lot! Sorry i didn't get back to you after I asked how old you are, but it's cool. You're a mature enough to be thinking about what you want from life and who you want to live it with. God bless you.

 

[Aardverk]

I believe I need to apologize to Aardverk for being critical of his post in this thread. While I still feel my point was valid, it was disrespectful of me to address him as I did. He deserves better.

Aardverk, I'm sorry. It was wrong of me to say what I did. I could delete my post, but those that have already read it should read this follow up.

Thank you Mike. Your words are much appreciated.

I hope my boating metaphor was understood by all - but I will keep silent now.

Sincerely

Aardverk

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

Thanks everyone. Its hard liking someone but not dating them.

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

Aw thanks seagullplayer.

Also I should trust God 100%

 

[P31Woman]

How should a girl handle really liking a guy and caring about him? I don't want to be the pursuer so should I just pray and ask God if he is the one He wants me to be with?

Who was it that was praying and God told him to get up and move?

Why not ask him out?

Just because this may or may not be "the one" so what? If the guy is nice go have FUN.

 

[Aardverk]

:seehearspeak

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

I believe the man should be the pursuer. Plus if I do the asking out, I won't know if it is God's will for me. I also won't date anyone if I know it can't lead to marriage.

 

[P31Woman]

I believe the man should be the pursuer. Plus if I do the asking out, I won't know if it is God's will for me. I also won't date anyone if I know it can't lead to marriage.

Then sit at home and wait.

 

[P31Woman]

Hey JG,

Are you saying you know it will be God's Will for you to go out with this guy "if" he ask you out?

I it your believe that only men who ask a women out are able to be good godly leaders in their home?

How have you come about this belief system of yours? Do you think it's biblical or something you are making up in your own mind?

 

[RachelKeeth]

I believe the man should be the pursuer. Plus if I do the asking out, I won't know if it is God's will for me. I also won't date anyone if I know it can't lead to marriage.

Good for you! I believe the same thing, but don't often find others who have thought about it.

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

Are you being sarcastic? I get involved in activities so I am waiting for God.

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

You're putting words in my mouth. I believe it is the man's job because of Genesis and the verse a man who finds a wife finds a good thing.

 

[Rollo Tamasi]

Hi Jesus'sGirl,
There is always another side to a story.
Ruth did force her way into marrying Boaz.
There's nothing wrong with confronting him and thus clarifying his intentions.
He may be shy or he may not be interested in a serious relationship.
Either way, you have a right to know.
Maybe he just needs a little push. Lots of young men are undecisive about a serious relationship.
It's quite common.

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

I guess ill keep talking to him but thats it.

 

[P31Woman]

I believe the man should be the pursuer. Plus if I do the asking out, I won't know if it is God's will for me. I also won't date anyone if I know it can't lead to marriage.

Do you believe if this man ask you out it's God's will for you?

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

It very well could be.

 

[P31Woman]

It very well could be.

But you won't know.

Maybe God has several people who cross our path that would make great spouses for us? Maybe God does not select "just" one rather gives us a choice out of many?

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

Right but I won't know if he is a good choice if I just do the asking myself.

 

[P31Woman]

Right but I won't know if he is a good choice if I just do the asking myself.

Why?

 

[Jesus'sGirl]

Because then im not considering God's will.