Where did I add to His word?
The Bible says many people sought the Lord. That is what it says. There isn't a single word about God changing them or anything close to that. You changed that and added that bit to the Bible because your theology says it must be so. the Bible does not support that theology so you have a choice, embrace the Bible or your theology.
And there you are.
Romans 2:3 But do you presume this, O man—who passes judgment on those who practice such things and does the same—that you will escape the judgment of God?
I have no idea why you copied this verse.
I thought only God knows the heart.
Not at all. Jesus said to judge a tree by its fruit. It is possible to see the heart of a person, their motive and values when you have enough opportunity to see them making decisions and responding. It is done all the time in life and is assumed that we can know the heart of another in movies and observation. Sometimes one is wrong but sometimes one is right.
What does it mean to answer with Grace? Is it your replies back to me.
Good question. Yes, it means writing words you would yourself would like to receive. Words that bless another but not flatter.
Because I do not reply as you want me to I am mean.
I have re read my posts. I can come off as straight forward and blunt. You do not have to accept my apology and can think it is fake. I have nothing to prove to anyone.
It is not an apology. It is a worldly kind of placating a troubled conscience. An apology is admitting you did wrong, not that you hurt someone, which in most cases, is untrue. You did not hurt me or likely anyone. So what is that apology for? How can you apologize for something you did not achieve? How can it be an apology if you think you did not do it?
From your own condescending posts, you look down on those who are not schooled because they cannot structure a sentence or have proper grammar. Who really cares and that proves nothing. Why is that even an issue?
No, I do not look down on others. I said that they are not stupid. But there are people who are less educated. It is pretty foolish to think this is not true and it does not mean that they are less valuable. It is just not the people you go to for information or understanding. One does not talk to the high school drop out for help in medical difficulties, for example. You go to a person educated in medicine and we are talking college. This is just wisdom. And, people who are educated, use proper grammar (some mistakes, of course) because it is a kindness to those reading what they write. The less educated do not care.
Please read what you write. Most of your posts and replies come from your own understanding and not Scripture. If you do not accept that the Doctrines of Grace are Biblical truth, that is your belief. Those that believe this, understand that they did nothing in salvation because they were dead spiritually.
We did not discuss the doctrine of grace. And I use scripture, quote scripture and sometimes do so without indicating it is scripture. I do not add to it though.
The only free will the unregenerate have is to sin. Anything they do that the world deems good is motivated by pride.
I never once said I was good, the fact is, I have said and will say that I am a wretched sinner. I do not pretend to be who I am not.
You are so full of your own self-righteousness that you are blinded to many truths.
I have struck a nerve. your post shows your anger.
Grace and peace to you.
I already said in my post that I am not angry. And no, I am afraid you struck no nerve at all. None. Not even close. You are not able to understand my words so what you think is poking me is far afield. You would have to understand my words first, which you admitted that you cannot. I, by the way, have no desire nor pleasure in poking anyone or striking a nerve in anyone. I always hope that we can keep these exchanges intellectual.
One of your team said a really nasty jab at me which I will not long forget. He/she said "no wonder you're divorced" which is meant to say something very uncomplimentary about my character and behavior such that my husband, of course, divorced a woman like me. Problem is, I am happily married for over 30 years to the same man. Neither one of us were divorced before we married and he is more attached to me than the other way around. So the poster thought they could wound me with "hitting a nerve" as you hope to do, but alas he was stabbing in the dark. I laughed. It was a new one though. I have been falsely accused of many failings (which I will not detail like FHG does) but that was a new one. So you are not likely to be able to strike a nerve at all. You do not know enough same as that poster did not know enough. You would have to understand my posts before you could strike a nerve.