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Gay's Raising Children

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Lance_Iguana

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No it dosen't Lewis, Not hiding homosexuality won't make more people Gay, all it dose is that make so the people who are gay aren't afraid to come out anymore.

No study done, has shown that kids raised in Gay male of female homes makes the kid anymore likely to be gay.

You are pretty much opening up a pandora's box by making statements of who can raise children. What stipulations do you want the government forcing on you for raising your children?


Until you can demonstrate why its bad, you have no case to restrict the rights of Gays and Lesbiens, or even the chilldren.


Oh by the way. Dan Savage, a gay sex columnist, has a straight son. He has several video's on you tube where he explains how his Gayness didn't effect his son's sexuality.
 
I hate to bring this up, but I was watching TV today and Neil Patrick Harris = Doogie Howser was on. And they were talking about the new baby that him and his gay lover have now. And also Rosie O'Donell who is also gay is raising children. It is not right for gay people to be sleeping in the same bed with love making noises coming from the bed room. And also the kids being told that this is the norm, and to see 2 men or 2 women kissing and holding hands. This kind of stuff sets the kids up to be come gay. Some kids will and some won't. I don't think that the adaption companies or the states which you reside in, should allow this.
 
Lewis that's not how homosexuality works. it ISN'T contagious it's a congenital varience. Like Left-handedness. If what you suggested were the case then homosexuality wouldn't exist at all because for centuries most children have either been raised in a community or with a heterosexual couple.

"Noises from there room" the situation is exactly the same with heterosexual couple.
Your right in as far as that they might learn to see that as normal the effect of this would be less homophobia.
 
Pebbles,

I understand what your saying, but to a degree, one is a product of their environment. If one is raised by a set of gay parents, I think it would be safe to say that their chances of 'trying' homosexual acts would increase.

I would liken it to parents who openly smoke dope, or drink beer in front of their children. They are going get the idea that that's what they are supposed to do.
 
StoveBolts said:
Pebbles,

I understand what your saying, but to a degree, one is a product of their environment. If one is raised by a set of gay parents, I think it would be safe to say that their chances of 'trying' homosexual acts would increase.

I would liken it to parents who openly smoke dope, or drink beer in front of their children. They are going get the idea that that's what they are supposed to do.
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Well... I grew up in a family of heavy smokers everyone in my family smokes ALOT. I however am utterly completely polarized against it I have a strong irrational phobia of it if I have to touch and ashtray I will wash my hands compulsively for hours, I saw someone else eat a cigarette and *I* puked everywhere at just the sight.

A friend of mine has a similar irrational fear regarding alcohol even the smell makes her uneasy close exposure has been known to cause panic attacks in her... she grew up in a family of alcoholics. When working with Ethanol in the lab I've noticed that she often dons hazardous material gloves for handling it when we don't have to.

We discussed our similar phobias it's pretty obvious to both of us it's linked to our childhoods. So you know it's not explicitly the case that begin exposed will make you want to try stuff the psychology in each individual is complex and exposure doesn't mean tolerance.

Ultimately if you thought homosexual relationships were normal you'd still be extremely unlikely to have sex with a person you aren't attracted to.
 
Oh I understand what your saying, and I wasn't explicitly saying anything. Hope you didn't take it that way.

As far as examples, it was pretty common to see my Dad with a beer in his hand and every Friday and Saturday night he and my step Mom were off to the tavern till 2 am. I have 5 step siblings. Out of my 5 siblings, all of them drink excessively. 3 are alcoholics and the other two are social drinkers.

My alcoholic sister who is also a smoker, who just happens to be a drug addict too, has 3 children. Two of them drink and 2 of them smoke weed and 2 of them smoke cigarettes. Neither of them will go heavier than weed based on watching the demise of their mother. The third child does not drink or smoke.

So, by way of example from my own family, the statistics are staggering... and I have not even begun to touch on criminal records. Obviously, I'm the exception in my family thanks be to God, and I love, and care for my siblings very much.
 
Another gay-related thread?!?! Seriously? lol.

Anyway, I'm not a big fan of gays raising kids, especially gay men, since they tend to have open and unstable relationships, but I don't know how a secular society can really object to that. I mean, we let heterosexual couples adopt and 50%+ of those marriages end in divorce.
 
There does seem to be a lot of "gay" threads these days. :chin

As per the OP...it would be my wish that all kids can be raised in homes in which their biological mother and biological father, who have no serious issues, raise them with an abundance of love and the right measure of discipline.

Unfortunately, that's not the real world. There's a vast amount of kids out there who don't get that.

As for gays adopting, sorry, but I can't agree with it as far as infants are concerned.

However, for kids who are in the foster care system, who need a stable home, I don't have a problem with gays or lesbians adopting them. Kids in foster care need homes, and if a stable gay or lesbian couple want to provide that home for them...that's far better than them staying in the foster care system.
 
Lance_Iguana said:
No study done, has shown that kids raised in Gay male of female homes makes the kid anymore likely to be gay.
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I actually, not too long ago, saw a study that did find that. I can't give my thoughts on the study, though, because I did not bother to read it. I just wasn't interested. But you are correct in other ways, because in the past the majority of research showed that children raised by homosexual parents were not any more likely to become homosexual than those raised by straight parents. (The studies did show that they were more likely to experiment with it though.)

But to be honest, I had absolutely no interest in reading yet another study on it. I am more concerned with what implications people will try and twist out of it.
 
The worst family for children imho is a Godless one ... usually means atheist lol ...
 
PouringRain said:
I actually, not too long ago, saw a study that did find that. I can't give my thoughts on the study, though, because I did not bother to read it. I just wasn't interested. But you are correct in other ways, because in the past the majority of research showed that children raised by homosexual parents were not any more likely to become homosexual than those raised by straight parents. (The studies did show that they were more likely to experiment with it though.)

But to be honest, I had absolutely no interest in reading yet another study on it. I am more concerned with what implications people will try and twist out of it.
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The only study I've seen that shows Homosexual parents have a negative impact, was the study done by the American Family association. Which is not a respected research center.

Its a political group that has made itself quite vocal about being against homosexuals. They have been caught tampering and spinning information time and time again. No sociological research center accepts their findings, because of these acts. A few years ago, they launched a poll to try and show that America was heavily against homosexuals, but they tried to limit their poll to only their supporters. They wanted to send this poll off to congress to show that America was against us. The problem was that since they posted this on the internet, word got out and people flooded their poll. So they ditched it and complained about how the "Gay Agenda" had silenced the real message of America.

They are a dirty political group that dosen't care about facts or evidence, only pushing their agenda. They have even come out and stated that any study that says homosexuals can be good parents should automatically be discredited because they have stated homosexuals are horrible people to begin with.

So to give you an idea of their bias, they've already claimed to never accept any evidence that shows they are wrong.
Think about that when you read their research papers. They make a big deal about how the world is lying to you, but they admit that they will not accept any information that proves them wrong.

Think about that.
 
Homosexual partners who become adoptive parents are doing the next generation great harm. They are godless families and raising godless children who have been trained to view perversion as normal.

It is a further degradation of society in this very generation before our very eyes, and we can do nothing about it. It is a tidal wave.
 
Alabaster said:
Homosexual partners who become adoptive parents are doing the next generation great harm. They are godless families and raising godless children who have been trained to view perversion as normal.

It is a further degradation of society in this very generation before our very eyes, and we can do nothing about it. It is a tidal wave.
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It is normal, and the children will be fine. There is no need for alarm.
 
If it were two women or two men raising children and men were not, 'lying with man as a woman' and vic. vers. with women, it'll probably not be a bad thing.

But it's the 'acts' which is the problem.

It's not normal.

Children should not be raised in environments of continual abhorrent sinning ...

Pity the children who have no say ...
 
A marriage is supposed to be between three: man, woman and God. It is this strong foundation that gives children the launching pad to succeed, in carrying over the morals and strengths of their childhood into adult life

Now, via the bible (Romans 1, 1 Corinthians 6) we know homosexuality is a sinful lifestyle, alienated from God. So in any homosexual relationship 2 of the 3 pillars are missing. God and one of the sexes. Instead of a firm foundation, the child is now balancing on a pole. Not a good or Godly situation.

We should stick with God's plan, One Man, One Woman, One Family.
 
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