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I don't think my husband ever will respond to the Lord... He is full of hate and needs to realize that he needs Jesus. I just don't know. I guess I thought I could go in and just make things right, but don't think I can. He has a lot of anger inside of him my sister.
 
mswright6488 said:
I don't think my husband ever will respond to the Lord... He is full of hate and needs to realize that he needs Jesus. I just don't know. I guess I thought I could go in and just make things right, but don't think I can. He has a lot of anger inside of him my sister.
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Only you know what you have done and what he has done in your marriage. Frankly, people looking from the outside can only go by what they have been told by each of you. Been there, done that.
I think what people, including me, were doing was to advise that you are careful in your decisions and weigh the consequences of any action you decide to take. Be patient, don't get in a hurry.
You may be right and he will not respond but give it time because if he does then you can have a Godly home where your children can thrive, be secure, and witness God's power. A healed marriage is one of the most powerful witnesses to God's grace.
 
Deborah13 said:
Only you know what you have done and what he has done in your marriage. Frankly, people looking from the outside can only go by what they have been told by each of you. Been there, done that.
I think what people, including me, were doing was to advise that you are careful in your decisions and weigh the consequences of any action you decide to take. Be patient, don't get in a hurry.
You may be right and he will not respond but give it time because if he does then you can have a Godly home where your children can thrive, be secure, and witness God's power. A healed marriage is one of the most powerful witnesses to God's grace.
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Wow, good post, sister. Nothing is beyond Gods power, and besides, it's not our job to convict him or change his heart, that's the Holy Spirits job. All we do is plant seeds and be a good example. :)

Far be from me to tell anyone what to do. I don't know all the circumstances, but the one thing I did notice was that, mswright seems to have been given conflicting advice? Some from a 'a faithful man of our Lord', and some from God also. God is the higher authority, just sayin'...:)

Be sure. Pray about it. I'll pray for you all too. :)
 
mswright6488 said:
I don't think my husband ever will respond to the Lord... He is full of hate and needs to realize that he needs Jesus. I just don't know. I guess I thought I could go in and just make things right, but don't think I can. He has a lot of anger inside of him my sister.
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Hello Sister, he will never respond to Christ if you say he wont, because what you say in faith goes. You can speak words of death or life, blessing or cursing, and whatever you pick, thats what you get. See Proverbs 18 v 20, 21 And Deuteronomy 30 v 19.
I didn't make the rules, God did, and since we live in a word-created, word-governed universe, we need to be aware of how to use words for life and blessing, and refuse to give the devil access to our words. Our words are like containers, they carry the blessing or the curse, which would you rather eat?

Repent and break the power (with the name of Jesus) of any words you have spoken that are against what you want for your husband. Next, if he claims to be a Believer, then pray 2 Timothy 2 v 25-26 (in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; 26 and that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will.).
I have personally seen the Lord do exactly that with a member of my family filled with hatred and he was a Believer. He had been listening to the devil and spewed a bunch of awful things at me (basically disowning me as his family member because of my stand on the Word of God) and then 2 weeks after praying that he suddenly is deeply sorry and asks for my forgiveness and so on.
NO ONE is outside the reach of God, look at Paul. Ask the Lord to grant your husband repentance to the acknowledging of the Truth that he may recover himself out of the snare of the devil. AND, bind Satan and command him and all his forces to take their hands off of him and be silent and be removed out of his life, and loose the ministering spirits assigned to you (Hebrews 1 v13, 14 and Psalm 103 v 20 (you are the voice of the Word of God)) to go bring him to repentance that your marriage be reconciled and pray that God in the name of Jesus would restore him to you and that you would have a true Christian marriage that endures. And once you've prayed (remember Mark 11 v 22-24, you got the answer WHEN you prayed (not later)) keep praising and thanking God for the victory and that you have your marriage restored. Don't wait and see, you have to take it in faith in prayer, otherwise you are just wishing. 2 Cor 1 v 20, ALL the promises of God are yes and amen in Christ (and in Christ is where you are).
Watch The Believer's Voice of Victory on KCM.org this week (and every week), they will equip you for daily victory sistEr, God bless you and be sure to post the good news as a testimony!
 
Gary said:
Emotional abuse can be much more damaging than physical abuse. Wounds heal and bruises fade, whereas cutting remarks and verbal attacks become a part of ones memory. While many adults can rationalize this type of behavior and put it behind them, most children cannot.

Prolonged exposure to verbal abuse is not healthy for the child.


I'm not telling you what to do, but if I were in your place, I would make sure that your husband's anger issues are being dealt with before I let my child set one foot inside that house.



But that's just me. :)
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No, that is not just you. I think she has an obligation to think of what is best for the children
 
mswright6488 said:
I don't think my husband ever will respond to the Lord... He is full of hate and needs to realize that he needs Jesus. I just don't know. I guess I thought I could go in and just make things right, but don't think I can. He has a lot of anger inside of him my sister.
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I have not read through this whole thing. According to scripture, once a women is handed a bill of Divorcement, she is not to return back to her Husband, but is able to marry again.

A man may not put away his wife and marry another. This is Adultery. He must free the wife with a bill of divorcement.

So, despite what people "Think" the Lord said, the Lord is not going to contradict His Word for anyone.

If you hear God, then I believe God has helped you see this, or God will help you see this. God is faithful, and good to us.
 
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