I basically agree with what you've posted. Many times I try to explain to unbelievers (on another site) how following Christ is not a religion, being Christian, but is a way of living, it's 'faithing' and relying upon God day to day by trying to follow His Word. It's not a method of following nor of being good before God through man-made traditions and such.
Not that there's a lot wrong with religious traditions of worship. ;) It is the way we fellowship, and have that community. It is different in larger cities etc, unless the church members work hard at keeping it a close community of believers. I, for one, miss living in MO for this very reason: we were neighbors and friends, fellowshipping, praying, being "there" for each other like a good family would be... where I'm at now, I have no church to attend and it's very, very difficult to not enjoy fellowship with other believers.
Acts 2 records a fellowship in the Spirit that goes far beyond even what the Jews are living. I see that ONLY when we are living at THAT level will we be able to make the Jews jealous.
We are called to be gathered into His Body.....that means very close proximity AND being in the Spirit.