This is the chance for you to practice discernment. The problem with answering this question is it allows for a kind of laziness as well as doesn’t really get to the truth. If my words match up with the scale of measure you have in your mind, that is, I say the “right words”then you’ll relax in the assurance that I belong to the group, only by the words answering the direct question, nothing else. This is how people fool others and themselves…they know the “right” words to say.
Jesus said you’ll know a tree by its fruit, not from the noise the leaves make as the breeze whistles through them.