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I think if you trust God He would direct you to the right person. You would know if you married the right person if:
E.g
1. A husband I know is very quiet. The wife isn't quiet at all. The wife does all the talking and rebukes - and challenging people.
2. A wife I know is (perhaps 'was') a very bad cook. The husband is an excellent cook who does powerful dishes.
3. One isn't rich enough and the other is the bread winner etc etc
4. A man I know is shy (sexually speaking). The wife isn't. Etc etc
I hope it's clear now.
You can see that! An important quality lacking in one partner is found in the other partner.
I don't think the same quality will be lacking in both husband and wife at the same time (unless it was a faulty marriage). E.g is that quiet husband who has a courageous wife.
At the same time I don't think God permits the same quality to exist in both husband and wife. It can cause rivalry and unhealthy competition (unless it has to do with the qualities that should be found in both: things like - love, truthfulness, etc. Marriage is all about potential diffrence. So when you find a lacking quality in the other partner I would boldly say: you got the right person.
So think about what hapenes when a husband is a talking parrot and at the same time the wife is a talking parrot. That's a house of commotion and disorder
Gotta rest my fingers here. What do you think? Thanks
E.g
1. A husband I know is very quiet. The wife isn't quiet at all. The wife does all the talking and rebukes - and challenging people.
2. A wife I know is (perhaps 'was') a very bad cook. The husband is an excellent cook who does powerful dishes.
3. One isn't rich enough and the other is the bread winner etc etc
4. A man I know is shy (sexually speaking). The wife isn't. Etc etc
I hope it's clear now.
You can see that! An important quality lacking in one partner is found in the other partner.
I don't think the same quality will be lacking in both husband and wife at the same time (unless it was a faulty marriage). E.g is that quiet husband who has a courageous wife.
At the same time I don't think God permits the same quality to exist in both husband and wife. It can cause rivalry and unhealthy competition (unless it has to do with the qualities that should be found in both: things like - love, truthfulness, etc. Marriage is all about potential diffrence. So when you find a lacking quality in the other partner I would boldly say: you got the right person.
So think about what hapenes when a husband is a talking parrot and at the same time the wife is a talking parrot. That's a house of commotion and disorder
Gotta rest my fingers here. What do you think? Thanks