if it is a gift i figure if i need it God will give it to me
Many Christian see it like Ezra, above wrote.
But if that thinking is correct, why did Paul give the instruction "desire the gift". In fact wasn't it because we tend to shy away from them that Paul had to instruct the people to desire the gifts?
Paul also wrote "Now I wish that all spoke in tongues". So if we are reading what Paul wrote and understanding what he wanted to accomplish with his writing, we surely have to understand that Paul (the man the God used to write so very much of the New Testament) desired that we should have the gifts of the Spirit. And he obviously understood that God gave them to people because they desired them. They were not so much a gift the God just gives, but they are a gift that is to be desired.
Or perhaps they could be thought of as gifts that we do have, at least we have access to, but we have to want to open them. That is to say, that God sends His Holy Spirit, and He has the gifts, but do we want to accept them? God is not usually One who forces Himself on us. He gives us a choice to accept His Son, so don't we have a choice to accept the gifts of the Spirit? So what are we going to choose?
If truly a Christian, we accept the Son, should we not also choose the gifts the Spirit has for us?
In fact, if we were focusing on the Giver of the gifts, wouldn't we desire and accept the gifts He and Paul desire us to have?
[QUOTE="sometimes others focus more on the gift than the giver of the gift.the free gift..:amen
1 John 2:25(KJV)
25 And this is the promise that he hath promised us, even eternal life.[/QUOTE]
In fact, if we were focusing on the Giver of the gifts, wouldn't we desire and accept the gifts He and Paul desire us to have? And Christianity is not only about the promise of eternal life is it? Did not Jesus promise to never leave us? And did He not also tell us about the promise of sending His Holy Spirit?
So are we missing out on all that God has for us because we do not desire the gifts as instructed?