Now the expressed hope of loving one another despite differences is, of course, quite right and I applaud you as well as agree. It’s difficult here as we don’t exchange warm personal talk, drink coffee together, laughter or work on a project together. All we exchange is words.
That being said, you take the high ground when you claim your opinion is not based on normal human endeavors but no less than what God has “allowed” you to
understand. First, God doesn’t ever say He “allows” understanding. He does reward with understanding, however. So people’s understanding is based solely upon their own choices, in particular their seeking to understand or not. God responds and rewards.