The problem here seems to be that you don't believe that the Bible is inspired by God in its entirety and therefore authoritative in all it says. In that case, throw out the Bible. Either take all of it or take none of it; there is no middle ground.Indeed. I just doubt that what the Bible says and what God says are always entirely the same thing, which appears to be your assumption.
Not at all trying to frighten. Just stating what the Bible says on the matter.God's wrath? Been there. Done that. Got that T shirt. And came out the other side, intact and improved. You can't frighten me with it, any more.
Yes, there very much is something wrong with cherry-picking. It is one thing to disagree about what the Bible says in places, it is quite another to just discard what one doesn't like.I've been called a cherry-picker, as if there was something wrong with believing stuff you think is true, and disbelieving stuff you don't. There is lots in the Gospels I like, and forms part of my world view, and lots in Genesis I don't, and doesn't. As I said earlier:
Which is irrelevant and highly misleading. First, "the religion" was never designed to control anyone. Secondly, this was all dealt with at the Reformation. Thirdly, of course God intends for us to use our intellects, our ability to reason and think critically, when we approach Scripture, but we are never to do that without the aid of the Holy Spirit as well. We are also never to do it alone either.[we}are no longer the ignorant peasants and serfs the religion was designed to control. [There should be] A recognition, maybe, that we are endowed with intellects, discriminatory powers and critical faculties because God intends for us to use them, even (perhaps especially) on scripture.
The irony is, you want everyone to be in the family of God, quite strongly it seems, but then you set about interpreting and understanding Scripture on your own, ignoring nearly 2000 years of teaching on Christian beliefs. Followers of Christ are called to be in community, and some even say that that is so central, that one cannot be a Christian if they shun being in community with other believers. If what you believe the Bible says on a given matter goes against 2000 years of Christian teaching, then that should be a huge red flag to you that something is likely wrong in what you believe.
I use "true Christian" because the majority, maybe even a significant majority, of those who profess to be Christians most likely are not. Most are "cultural Christians," Christian in name only, and don't even know what it means to be a follower of Christ. The NT is very clear that only those who believe in Jesus, in his name, are the children of God.Hmmm. If I don't like the phrase 'true Christian', I like the phrase 'true children of God' even less.
"Good and just." Be careful that you understand what you are saying, as it seems that you haven't actually thought through your argument. If God created us in his image, to be in relationship with him, but we rebelled against him and so deserve punishment, then you need to think very carefully about what a good and just God should do with those who live their lives in continuous rebellion against him, even rejecting the very means he provides for their salvation and reconciliation to him.Who are those of other faiths, and none? His illegitimate, bastard children, to be bundled into the fiery furnace without ceremony and just as rapidly as possible? Sorry, but that sounds way too Nazi and really doesn't work for me, and I very much doubt it works for a good and just God, either.
What favoritism?Nor do I like the implication of favouritism you and conventional Christianity seem comfortable with. Favouritism doesn't work in families, and it doesn't work in organisations or nations either (where it is known as corruption, nepotism or cronyism). Just who do you think God is? An omnipotent Trump?