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Is there a psychological and demonic side to homosexuality?

destiny said:
LoverOfGod...
I never said homosexuality was genetic and I never said there was a gay gene, if thats what you think my post meant. I pretty much said the same thing as you except I believe the abuse (or) a wrong type of role model created a doorway for the enemy to pervert the persons identity.
This happens in more areas than just homosexuality

No, I was just refuting what many believe.
 
See...its interesting that I was never abused, had a more than solid family background strong male and female role models and have had no severely disruptive incidents in my childhood. Yet I was very aware of being different from a very young age.

What caused my homosexuality? I suspect it was latent within my genetic framework and was stirred into action by my environment.

I fail to see the work of demons here.
 
destiny said:
Quath, Lets say you told your daughters not to play around with matches because they could get burned, and not only could they get burned but they would face punishment from you if they should choose to disobey your rules.
Do you think the statements and warnings you gave your daughters are open to 'interpretation', or are they pretty self explanatory?

How would you feel if one of them said, 'well dad, I played with matches because I didn't interpret what you said as telling me I couldn't, however my other sister interpreted differently and she didn't play with the matches.'

Which one obeyed and which one put a spin on your words? ;-)
That is a good point. Sometimes our statements seem obvious. But many times, there are interpretations. For example, if she drew a picture on the match cover, she techiically did play with them. However, she did not do what I feared she would do. Or maybe the lights went out and one decided to light a candle. She may feel that lighting the candle was not playing with them but using them wisely instead.

Words are not perfect. So it takes questions and responses sometimes to make something clear. Unfortunately this is not really available from God. I know that some people think that it is from the Holy Spirit, but everyone who says they have the Holy Spirit comes up with a different interpretation.

Relic said:
And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die
Well, I hate to point out, but the serpent did not lie. Adam did not die that day. Adam was not immortal according to Genesis, so Adam was going to die one day anyway. If Adam died spiritually, that means that spirits are not immortal. But I guess everyone interprets this story differently.

any idiot can see that it is a metaphor or a parable that is being used as an example in order to get the value of a specific moral relayed.
So are you saying that all the Christians in the past that thought the Sun didn't move were idiots?

The MORALS that all people of God are meant to live by, which are written of in the bible, are not fuzzy or left for guessing as to the meaning of what is sin and what is not.
So here is some morality in the Bible. Tell me which of these are Holy Truth that still stand?

1. It is ok to beat your slave so long as the slave does not die two days later.
2. Eating lobster is an abomination.
3. Wearing cotton/polyester is an abomination.
4. It is morally ok to kill your enemy's children.
5. A raped woman should marry her rapist.
6. Pre-maritial sex for women should result in killing them in front of their parents.
7. You should kill homosexuals and Wiccians.
8. Men with crushed testicles should not go to church.

The sad fact is that we all know these are wrong. Yet Christians can not admit it without saying that the Old Testament had bad morality. So they walk a line of accepting and rejecting such horrible things.

AHIMSA said:
What caused my homosexuality? I suspect it was latent within my genetic framework and was stirred into action by my environment.
One of my friends is gay. I asked him when he figured out he was gay. He said that in middle school he realized he was ignoring the girls and checking out the guys. I asked him what he thought of that and he replied, "I thought, 'Crap! I'm gay.'" He was kind of saddened by it because he knew what he would have to face in the world.
 
My nephew is gay. My sister worries for him. He's not exactly the one man type.
 
My nephew is gay. My sister worries for him. He's not exactly the one man type.

Promiscuity and homosexuality are two very different things. My parents worry for me often because they fear I am going to be victimized on account of my sexuality. However, they don't need to worry about me getting an STD or AIDS. Increasingly, I'm finding that most of the gay guys i know are indeed searching for a monogomous relationship. Slowly, I feel, as gay relationships are more accepted monogomous relationships will be predominant and solid in the gay community.
 
My dad accused me of being homosexual because I was still a virgin until I married at age 22. He had no morals and didn't understand why any male wouldn't be out "sowing his oats". I got actively involved in a church at age 16 and accepted Christ at age 17 and never got into sex until I got married. It was well worth waiting for it! I don't understand this mentality that assumes a male isn't normal if he isn't having sex whether he's married or not, and yet if a woman does it outside of marriage she's called a slut.
 
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