Jesus only helped her because of her faith that she showed and the fact that she was a gentle soul even when confronted with the title of dog as in Gentiles of the beastly nature. Rather we are killers or just liars, they are all marks of a beast because while we look good to get pats on the back from man, we go home in secret to show our real self to God, for we don't realize He doesn't miss a thing. Jesus said if you want to do good to someone, don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing so that you will have some type of reward in heaven. We see all of these people on the news the do gooders that seem like Very Nice and generous people... for the cameras, and the media. But we can not fool God, without walking IN the Word, we are still as filthy rags. Don't forget, we were all good and evil except the blood of Christ cleanses us. The blood of Christ represents the Spirit of God that guides and teaches the serious that desire a changed life. We come just as we are, but we can't just stand there, we MUST grow in the Word learning how to walk with the living Water when storms arise, doubting NOTHING.
Heavenly food from God is a greater gift than you could ever give a hurting one. They are poor and hurting for lack of spiritual food and a worker for God is worth his wages. We don't go out to pay other to receive God's Word... as in oh, pretty please. We are not to throw our pearls to swine. They should honor the Word of God as something of worth to them and give an offer to the one who serves the spiritual meal that is for their soul. NOT the other way around. Jesus ate with sinners, but at THEIR cost, not his.
Here is just another truth that I came up here to post on this topic of us not supposed to supply the lost, they are supposed to give of their own free will of course, we are never to ask them for an offering for our own self, that is a begger, Gods children should not be beggars, and not prideful as in excepting something either, but a thank you for opening their eyes to truth.
Luke 10:1 After these things the Lord appointed other seventy also, and sent them two and two before his face into every city and place, whither he himself would come.
2 Therefore said he unto them, The harvest truly is great, but the labourers are few: pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he would send forth labourers into his harvest.
3 Go your ways: behold, I send you forth as lambs among wolves.
4 Carry neither purse, nor scrip, nor shoes: and salute no man by the way.
5 And into whatsoever house ye enter, first say, Peace be to this house.
6 And if the son of peace be there, your peace shall rest upon it: if not, it shall turn to you again.
7 And in the same house remain, eating and drinking such things as they give: for the labourer is worthy of his hire. Go not from house to house.
8 And into whatsoever city ye enter, and they receive you, eat such things as are set before you:
9 And heal the sick that are therein, and say unto them, The kingdom of God is come nigh unto you.
Now does this sound like we are to bribe the ungodly who want nothing to do with God's kingdom? Quite the opposite. While Jesus ate with sinners, he did not keep returning to hang out with them once they did not receive him.
10 But into whatsoever city ye enter, and they receive you not, go your ways out into the streets of the same, and say,
11 Even the very dust of your city, which cleaveth on us, we do wipe off against you: notwithstanding be ye sure of this, that the kingdom of God is come nigh unto you.
12 But I say unto you, that it shall be more tolerable in that day for Sodom, than for that city.
KJV
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