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I decided to post my thoughts on here for anyone interested and consider this also a goodbye posted here but actually intended for organized religion in general. After trying to find a church and simultaneously playing around on a number of christian web sites, including this one, I am withdrawing once again to my bible and personal relationship with Christ. I will quickly give some reasons for this as described below. My experiences have obviously been negative as I feel I came across a number of groups which I feel are dominating organized religion and contrary to what they say, their viewpoints cannot be considered wholly biblical. Some will get defensive of the three groups I mention. Some will say there are other groups just as bad or worse. I don't doubt it, but where I live and with my experiences these are in fact the three groups I have grown to wish to distance myself from. Some of you will already have heard much of this due to my previous posts of a month or two ago on this website.
1. The third world crowd. This group by far is the one that keeps me from church. They insist that it is my obligation to stop my life and give everything I have to the third world. I actually doubt that God has put me on this earth to tirelessly sacrifice so that other people and cultures can have as many children as possible with no heed of trying to do such through the God ordered sanctimony of marriage. If christian groups want to accuse me of being a sinner for not giving then they should at least be actively involved explaining to people in Haiti, Africa, etc. that there is something wrong with their behaviours. I would also expect those lecturing me on how much I should be giving to take their own advice and make greater personal sacrifices since many are much wealthier than myself. Finally, I would expect a thorough financial audit of any and all aid group since a fortune was given on Haiti and no results came anyhow. Just where did the money all go? But overall the concept that somehow I'M the problem for not giving is tired and ridiculous.
2. The Israel Lobby. I don't pretend to know whether or not modern day Israel is the same exalted one of biblical prophesies. However, I cannot blindly support a group of people as Godly creatures when they are overwhelmingly mixed up with support of abortion, gay marriage, usary, and blatant discrimination and persecution of christians as well as being on the wrong side of many other issues in the long standing culture wars. If Israel wants a coalition with christians, then they themselves are obligated to come forward and make it viable rather than just quoting one or two bible verses selectively. Sadly, my experiences suggest that the "biblical" insisted support for Israel is more about money and political correctness. Hardly worth my time when some insist that its all about the bible yet behave as such for these ulterior purposes.
3. This might sound strange, but apparently I have come across hordes of single moms and divorcees who pile themselves into churches and christian web sites and make a number of insistances. Apparently it is un-christian to make any judgements about them and this includes deciding you would rather date a girl with no past than them. They tell me that "church is not a dating service" when I talk to some girl after service but after they break up my conversation and chase the girl away, I am given speeches about how I am obligated to date them. Some are so agressive that I was literally afraid to go to a church service which I wanted to for no ulterior motive of my own such as getting a date. As I have dealt with this many times over the years, I have put forth a question: exactly why should I be obligated to a single mom or divorcee at church on sunday morning as opposed to "forgiving the sins" of a party girl at the bar on saturday night? No one seems to be able to answer this question but this strange insistance goes on of the obligation to the second chance church women. Further, any and all sin of mine, such as not having a high enough income is perfectly okay to judge ME on.
In the end I feel my life and relationship with God are better served by living my own life rather than forever trying to appease other groups which seem to expect perfection from myself whilst I overlook any and all of their sins. I would expect pastors to ask for high standards of personal conduct for all since churches now mostly attract very diverse crowds but instead I have found lecturing which only matches politically correct humanistic standards of victim groups and monster groups. As I have never accepted the victim/monster classifications of the anti-christian politically correct it is pointless for infiltrated churches to try to hit me with the same ideology only now claiming it is what the bible wants.
But anyhow, those are my thoughts and it is goodbye for me to organzied religion.
1. The third world crowd. This group by far is the one that keeps me from church. They insist that it is my obligation to stop my life and give everything I have to the third world. I actually doubt that God has put me on this earth to tirelessly sacrifice so that other people and cultures can have as many children as possible with no heed of trying to do such through the God ordered sanctimony of marriage. If christian groups want to accuse me of being a sinner for not giving then they should at least be actively involved explaining to people in Haiti, Africa, etc. that there is something wrong with their behaviours. I would also expect those lecturing me on how much I should be giving to take their own advice and make greater personal sacrifices since many are much wealthier than myself. Finally, I would expect a thorough financial audit of any and all aid group since a fortune was given on Haiti and no results came anyhow. Just where did the money all go? But overall the concept that somehow I'M the problem for not giving is tired and ridiculous.
2. The Israel Lobby. I don't pretend to know whether or not modern day Israel is the same exalted one of biblical prophesies. However, I cannot blindly support a group of people as Godly creatures when they are overwhelmingly mixed up with support of abortion, gay marriage, usary, and blatant discrimination and persecution of christians as well as being on the wrong side of many other issues in the long standing culture wars. If Israel wants a coalition with christians, then they themselves are obligated to come forward and make it viable rather than just quoting one or two bible verses selectively. Sadly, my experiences suggest that the "biblical" insisted support for Israel is more about money and political correctness. Hardly worth my time when some insist that its all about the bible yet behave as such for these ulterior purposes.
3. This might sound strange, but apparently I have come across hordes of single moms and divorcees who pile themselves into churches and christian web sites and make a number of insistances. Apparently it is un-christian to make any judgements about them and this includes deciding you would rather date a girl with no past than them. They tell me that "church is not a dating service" when I talk to some girl after service but after they break up my conversation and chase the girl away, I am given speeches about how I am obligated to date them. Some are so agressive that I was literally afraid to go to a church service which I wanted to for no ulterior motive of my own such as getting a date. As I have dealt with this many times over the years, I have put forth a question: exactly why should I be obligated to a single mom or divorcee at church on sunday morning as opposed to "forgiving the sins" of a party girl at the bar on saturday night? No one seems to be able to answer this question but this strange insistance goes on of the obligation to the second chance church women. Further, any and all sin of mine, such as not having a high enough income is perfectly okay to judge ME on.
In the end I feel my life and relationship with God are better served by living my own life rather than forever trying to appease other groups which seem to expect perfection from myself whilst I overlook any and all of their sins. I would expect pastors to ask for high standards of personal conduct for all since churches now mostly attract very diverse crowds but instead I have found lecturing which only matches politically correct humanistic standards of victim groups and monster groups. As I have never accepted the victim/monster classifications of the anti-christian politically correct it is pointless for infiltrated churches to try to hit me with the same ideology only now claiming it is what the bible wants.
But anyhow, those are my thoughts and it is goodbye for me to organzied religion.