I have never studied the various catagories of beliefs of these groups, nor have I decided that each is clearly enough defined to choose one as a dogmatic position.
Surprisingly, I have chosen Arminianism as the closest to my understanding of God's dealings with mankind.
The points given for Arminianism are:
1. Create
2. Permit Fall
3. Provide salvation for all
4. Call all to salvation
5. Elect those who believe.
1. Create - God created man for HIS purpose:
I believe that God created man in His image, and I believe that this image was the basic makeup with mind, will, emotion, body, and spirit. I believe that God created the physical realm in which we live over the chaos where Lucifer fell to. Lucifer was created with a will to obey God as two-thirds of the heavenly host, but he refused. He instead wanted his throne equal to or above God's. Before the foundations of the world, Jesus Christ was going to be the propitiation for mankind's sin. This was a fact before the worlds were created. The reason? God was going to create out of a ball of mud, a creature that would be a JOINT HEIR with HIS SON, JESUS CHRIST; a place that Lucifer unrighteously coveted.
2. Permit Fall - God knew that man would fall having the will to fall:
I believe that God knew that satan would deceive and lie to tempt man to trangress against God, causing man to miss the mark of God's righteousness (sin). God had already established a way out, a light in the darkness, life to replace the death that sin brought upon man.
3. Provide salvation for all - God provided Jesus Christ to shed His blood for the sins of the world:
God is willing that all mankind come to be saved as HE gave HIS only begotten son Jesus Christ so that WHOSOEVER BELIEVED in him would not perish but gain eternal life.
"For God so loved HIS CREATION that HE GAVE his ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, that whosoever BELIEVETH in HIM, SHOULD NOT PERISH, but have EVERLASTING LIFE." John 3:16
3 For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; 4 Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth. 5 For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus; 6 Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time. 1 Timothy 2:3-6
4. Call all to salvation - Does God call all to be saved?:
Psalm 49 says much about the call of God on mankind. God proclaims in this Psalm for all the people to give ear, all of the inhabitants of the world; whether low or high, rich or poor for His mouth shall speak wisdom. Those who are chosen are those who harken His call, and do not trust in their own riches or their own way of life.
1 Hear this, all ye people; give ear, all ye inhabitants of the world: 2 Both low and high, rich and poor, together. 3 My mouth shall speak of wisdom; and the meditation of my heart shall be of understanding. 4 I will incline mine ear to a parable: I will open my dark saying upon the harp. 5 Wherefore should I fear in the days of evil, when the iniquity of my heels shall compass me about? 6 They that trust in their wealth, and boast themselves in the multitude of their riches; 7 None of them can by any means redeem his brother, nor give to God a ransom for him: 8 (For the redemption of their soul is precious, and it ceaseth for ever
9 That he should still live for ever, and not see corruption. 10 For he seeth that wise men die, likewise the fool and the brutish person perish, and leave their wealth to others. Psalm 49:1-10
14 For many are called, but few are chosen. Matthew 22:14
5. Elect those who believe - Those who are called and believe on the name of Jesus Christ are saved:
Since we are talking post-ascension of Jesus Christ, and the Gospel of Jesus is available for those who hear the word of God, then those that hear and believe will be saved. The many examples in the Book of Acts confirms this as well as the Gospels. Does God force individual to believe? Since God did not create the angels to obey as robots, I do not believe that God forces mankind to believe. I believe that God draws each believer to himself through Jesus Christ by the actions of the Holy Spirit. Those that do not come to God through Jesus Christ after having the light shine through the Holy Spirit refuse to come to the light. They reject the word of God. Many examples of this exist in the Book of Acts as well.
ConclusionThese statements declare my understanding at this time, and if I am incorrect in these areas, I have confidence that the Holy Spirit will correct me as I continue to pray and meditate upon His word. The Arminians believe that one can lose their salvation. I do not hold to this belief as I believe that once I became born of God, born again, I was sealed by the Holy Spirit until the day of redemption, and that I my flesh has been crucified in Christ Jesus as he gave His sinfree flesh for me. It may be apparant in the future that I disagree further with Arminianism, but with the choices that I was given in the OP, these are my beliefs.
PS. I am a post-tribulation, pre-wrath believer who has never been a pre-tribulationist.