You don't meet someone for the first time, and call them your best friend.
It is not how it works.
hahaha, some go as far as to say they don't actually have to meet again,
or even stay in touch, but one day they will get married by that person anyway.
it's how I would describe 'robot-logic' still waiting for the first kiss of true love,
while having a doctrine of the realtionship, instead of the actual realtionship.
I think it's the soul that can be set on "positive conditioning" where doctrine
is repeated until it becomes "personal belief" regardless of the actual reality of it.
Doctrine gets "stored" rather than realized. And does not necessarily touch personal
reality. Without direct conequences. I think the Bible uses the word "dead" for it.
Ok, I do have something to say as well, and I got aware of it just a few days ago,
it has to do with man as spirit-soul-body.
Could it be possible that both fractions of understanding here are partly "correct",
and the new testament talks about salvation of the spirit, what is by grace alone,
our human spirit gets quickened by the Holy Spirit, while other scripture references
(the larger parts of) talk about salvation of the soul that includes our personality.
IF refined through the cross, we can keep the soul, otherwise we loose it. It's conditional,
therefore we have a church-age for the process. But never can loose our salvation of
our human spirit, once regenerated. That would need to be determined what this actually
means in reality, and what this "saved without personality" would be like in heaven.
Or if we even can knowingly have a part of it, as 'knowing' is part of our personality, our soul.
working out of soul salvation is work that leads to justification as righteousness,
it's not only just rewards, it's about salvation of the soul. Scripture that relates:
Matthew 10:39  He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for
my sake shall find it.
What means according to that: The ones that live a life centered in the soul
and a life gratifying the soul will loose their soul, but the ones that accept the cross
with all its prunings and its daily deaths shall find (and keep) their purified soul
in salvation
I think what Luther never really understood, and somehow saw as not belonging is:
James 2:20  But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead?
James 2:22  Seest thou how faith wrought with his works, and by works was faith made perfect?
James 2:24  Ye see then how that by works a man is justified, and not by faith only.
James 2:26  For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.
without that however nobody can be pleasing to God, no election to firstfruits, and
most likely no position or reward in the kingdom in heaven. Dead faith is Not guaranteed
to be of value in any way, the soul salvation can be lost (Matthew 10:39 ), where spirit
salvation cannot be lost. But can that become personal in any way for us
or does it return to God at time of our death?