The gift of God with regard to repentance is that it has value, not that God repents for us.
agreed
Rom 2:4 says that
"the goodness of God leads you to repentance", not that God repents for us.
Agreed, God doesn't repent for us.... rather, God changes our heart via regeneration, the effect being repentance + faith = conversion
The cause of faith is hearing God's Word (
Rom 10:17).
This is not the cause or everyone that heard of that Christ died and rose again would be saved; rather, it is a necessary precursor.
Confession of sin is not the subject of
Rom 10:9-10. Confession of the name of Jesus is.
Don't know what this means. No further comment as I don't want to go to far away on a tangent (not that I don't have a response)
John 3:16 that He
"loved the [whole]
world" and becaues of that love, "whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."
Agreed, whoever believes is saved. But the verse does not tell us the cause of this belief. You believe (IMO) that the individual is the cause of his faith and I believe God is the cause of one to have faith via regeneration. The verse does not tell us the CAUSE of faith.
He is "not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance".
Agreed. This is God's perceptive will. Similarly, God would have all men not sin.
but He has also set a condition upon our reception of His blessing
Agreed. You believe it is a list of things one must do (IMO) and I believe the condition is God's selecting before the foundation of the earth (before we existed)
That verse cannot possibly mean that there is no physical action necessary for man to take hold of salvation, because there are multiple passages that command physical actions and say that they lead to salvation.
I know the logic behind your reasoning (at least I think I do). Your perspective is (IMO) ... we have to perform X, Y and Z from a will independent from God's (save knowing God's instructions for salvation). What you call the cause of salvation, I called the effect. I say cause is 'regeneration' and the effect is X, Y and Z. You say (IMO), we do X, Y and Z and this will cause us to be regenerated .... and probably you say (IMO) we have to continue doing X, Y and Z or we lose our salvation; whereas I say God sees to it that we do X, Y and Z till be die via indwelling Spirit, X, Y and Z.
Aside: References to "repent" to be saved
The stated purpose of the Gospel of John is to bring men to faith in Christ (
John 20:31),
yet John never once uses the word repent, not once.
Thanks for your thoughts and respectful correspondence on the matter.