[__ Prayer __] Pray for me as im dealing with evil; lust, greed, selfishness

[MayGodHeal]

Thank you for your continued prayers. Seem though as some of these women have a mind of their own. One of the quality control ladies is still hovering around my work area, the same one that has gone into my personal space. Of course if she can't get my attention by getting into my personal space she ends up lingering instead by talking to the other guys there.

This seems to repeat as a similar fashion with different women. I'm not sure yet but it's as if there is an energy that is either attached to me or is generally going on and I just happen to be in it. Then again it is near Chicago where people may lack values and are often purposely being this way. Anyway God knows what is going on and just gotta keep praying on this.

There has to be a reason why these specific women at work is doing this. I hope to figure this out.

 

[MayGodHeal]

These women at work are not getting the clue. This QC lady just irritated me on my parts not being good despite the fact they're ok. Seems to lie to get off or something. I don't think they're going to stop unless they're pushed out of the way so to speak. I don't know.

It's fine for a while then they go back to doing the same thing over again. They don't understand that I have zero interest in them and I just want to do my job and not have to get harrassed by them. I don't want to have to explain it to them but work and the women here are not mixing well.

 

[MayGodHeal]

The same lady, being irritating. It seems as if they're unable to see what they are doing and ignore the fact I'm not interested in their flirting, lusting or their possible sleeping with.. they just can't focus on the work.

 

[MayGodHeal]

Yep the women definitely has lust issues, there is a sexual harassment notice in our texts. One lady got hurt in our work area (it was cluttered, guess she tripped and fell) and its looking more likely they're not focused on the job but on something else.. like lust issues. The guys obviously do have this issue as well.

This does show they're also trying to get my attention. I read an article awhile back on how some workers will fantasize about others in the workplace. I don't doubt they're doing this here and it's not under control.

 

[citrus]

Sounds like your surrounded by prostitutes or something. What kind of place is this? Yes some women Satan uses to destroy people. You don't watch to get fired. I would tell them to leave you alone your busy doing your work. Who cares if they get mad. You don't have say it in a mean way, but firm and be consistent. Sounds like a bunch of gold diggers to me. Women like that go to fast and the there is nothing left. They want to control you. It is about manipulation and control. I wouldn't pity them if they are like. Oh im just going through something. Then you show her special attention about it and it us just another game to get control. They aren't as friendly as they seem. They will say oh your so insensitive. Sometimes girls say that when your in a relationship and it very well could be being insensitive, but when it comes to control sometimes it is used as away to get you in their control again it's abuse. Things like this should never take place at work. It is unexceptable. There is no excuse. The world would be a better place if people did their jobs. Sounds like you need to let off some steam. You need boundaries and sooner or later you have to get that point across. I'm sorry you are going through this. God will help you get out of it. I would hate it. I got guys that preyed on me and avoided them. I knew they didn't mean nice things to me just because they want to try and get me in bed. I'm smarter than that. I was in a bad relationship once and never again will I be so blind. Who knows what could of happend to me. Sometimes we don't see it coming, buy things are very clear now. I think it is for you too. Got to break some strong hold Satan is trying to bind you over and mess with your work performance. God has good things for you. Press on and ask for ways to have good discernment, boundaries, direction and make some big choices. It is better now than never. Maybe talk to your boss that you need more space to focus better. I'm not sure. I know your not a kid anymore, but maybe talk with a parent. You want a good woman and you don't want things to go sour. Even though your single maybe your parents understand the situation and you find a good girl. One who actually loves you and if your leg fell off they still wouldn't leave you. True love in for the long haul. Be more strong in what you say. Don't just let it continue. Of course be careful because they would turn it against you and say they never did any of that and wa wa. focus on you and your goals.

 

[MayGodHeal]

Sounds like your surrounded by prostitutes or something. What kind of place is this? Yes some women Satan uses to destroy people. You don't watch to get fired. I would tell them to leave you alone your busy doing your work. Who cares if they get mad. You don't have say it in a mean way, but firm and be consistent. Sounds like a bunch of gold diggers to me. Women like that go to fast and the there is nothing left. They want to control you. It is about manipulation and control. I wouldn't pity them if they are like. Oh im just going through something. Then you show her special attention about it and it us just another game to get control. They aren't as friendly as they seem. They will say oh your so insensitive. Sometimes girls say that when your in a relationship and it very well could be being insensitive, but when it comes to control sometimes it is used as away to get you in their control again it's abuse. Things like this should never take place at work. It is unexceptable. There is no excuse. The world would be a better place if people did their jobs. Sounds like you need to let off some steam. You need boundaries and sooner or later you have to get that point across. I'm sorry you are going through this. God will help you get out of it. I would hate it. I got guys that preyed on me and avoided them. I knew they didn't mean nice things to me just because they want to try and get me in bed. I'm smarter than that. I was in a bad relationship once and never again will I be so blind. Who knows what could of happend to me. Sometimes we don't see it coming, buy things are very clear now. I think it is for you too. Got to break some strong hold Satan is trying to bind you over and mess with your work performance. God has good things for you. Press on and ask for ways to have good discernment, boundaries, direction and make some big choices. It is better now than never. Maybe talk to your boss that you need more space to focus better. I'm not sure. I know your not a kid anymore, but maybe talk with a parent. You want a good woman and you don't want things to go sour. Even though your single maybe your parents understand the situation and you find a good girl. One who actually loves you and if your leg fell off they still wouldn't leave you. True love in for the long haul. Be more strong in what you say. Don't just let it continue. Of course be careful because they would turn it against you and say they never did any of that and wa wa. focus on you and your goals.

Unfortunately it's a common thing.

Here's How Many Women Fantasise About Their Co-workers

And a surprising number make it a reality.

menshealth.com.au

Yeah I don't talk to these women so well it's pretty clear that I have no interest or desire in them. I work in Chicago IL so it's no surprise the women here lack values and tend to flirt or have affairs with other men. I just pray God will keep barriers up and strengthen them against these women.

As for talking to parents/finding someone well that's just not going to happen. As I mentioned before (probably in a different post) I don't have an interest in finding someone right now, let alone I don't want to get "set up with someone". I do have some lady friends who are potentially interests but well again if it's God's will he will bring me to someone.

I do reserve myself for that 'good girl'. Yeah there are many superficial "gold diggers" out there, been around the block a few times with that already and while there are many single women out there the less I focus on them, potentially the easier it is to find the correct one.

 

[Hidden In Him]

while there are many single women out there the less I focus on them, potentially the easier it is to find the correct one.

Exactly. Keep your focus on God, and what He wants for you will take care of itself. I think the enemy is trying to distract you from Him for some reason, maybe because he knows you have a calling perhaps? Just throwing it out there. This whole story doesn't seem very common, but it becomes plausible if the enemy is after you for some reason.

 

[MayGodHeal]

Exactly. Keep your focus on God, and what He wants for you will take care of itself. I think the enemy is trying to distract you from Him for some reason, maybe because he knows you have a calling perhaps? Just throwing it out there. This whole story doesn't seem very common, but it becomes plausible if the enemy is after you for some reason.

Definitely possible, though as mentioned that my job has some harassment problems. Its difficult to say what is actually happening here as its mostly just a problem with some female co workers, less than 7 I'd say.

Other places I'm at tends to be somewhat random but not a huge problem like work. I'm praying for barriers to happen at work so I'm more protected by whatever is occuring. The less I interact with these particular women there the better as its isolated among at least several of them. I don't really have to interact with any of them either, besides a supervisor on occasion. I try to keep interactions brief, at a minimum now as a precaution. I think if they're not around me at all it wouldn't be an issue.

I know it may not always be possible but well I know God is aware of everything that is happening here so hopefully a spiritual wall can be put in place to keep things at a minimum.

While it's also true that evil may be the reason here, as even if I'm not submitting to the sin, it may still be distracting/irritating. Either way i hope God will make things better here as i do have a job to do and it's a bit distressing that it's still going on despite the fact I repeatedly shown no interest in these particular women. So I'm going to keep praying here and thank everyone else for their prayers as well.

Again its unclear as to what is happening here but need some barriers here and I know its possible as I've seen in the past.

 

[MayGodHeal]

There is definitely a lack of boundaries here with these women. We had free ice cream (one of the ones on the stick) I was about to go look around for it which one of these women just "happened to be there" and I just turned around and walked back. Wasn't worth the free ice cream.

They're "always there" which has gotten to be an irritation, despite praying I don't have to deal with any of them.

 

[MayGodHeal]

Yep, something here is terribly wrong, I handed the lady parts and she checked them but grabbed 5 more when she came back. Obviously she's ignoring the fact I'm not show any interest like a couple of other women there that is just not getting the hint. Somethings just very wrong with this lady as she's been trying to do this off and on for the past 3 years. It's one thing if a random lady tried but this one lady just will not stop. Tries to linger around for what? Nothing is ever going to happen, she just doesn't get it