I appreciate your time and response. Romans 8:28 suggests a 'purpose' or 'reason why', for "all things". The phrase 'work together for good', implies a pre-determined goal where even bad events that happen, are ultimately beneficial as part of a greater purpose that will be accomplished in the end. Freewill seems to be at the core of your theology. Your interpretation of scripture seems intent on establishing or defending freewill. But I am only speculating, and perhaps projecting my own aversion to the term.
Therefore my interest is specifically about freewill and whether it exists. So I wonder how you would answer if I asked you, if you are saying that those who Love God do so of their own freewill? Please allow me to further elaborate upon that thought before you give answer. Do men volunteer to Love God, or do we Love Him because of Who He is as a Person? Do you personally decide to worship God through a mental deliberation of whether you should or shouldn't, or does he move you to worship Him because He is everything Good and True and Holy. Do you feel Love or decide to feel Love? All of these questions are meant to provoke thought as to whether God's revelation of Himself has any power to bring men to their knees before Him in sincere worship.
As I said, previously, I don't think free will is an issue here. I do believe man has free will. However, as I said, the passages about predestination, when they pertain to man, are speaking about the Jews as the method that God used to bring to fruition His promises to Abraham. I submit that it has nothing to do with God choosing which individual is saved and which isn't. That idea is a man made doctrine that stems from a misunderstanding of the passages that speak of predestination. There is nothing in the Bible that states one person is predestined to be saved and another is not.
When we understand this from Paul's Jewish perspective rather than from a Greek philosophical point of view the problems all go away. I can answer the questions you asked, but I don't think they bear on the subject of predestination as it is in the Bible.
The predetermined goal n Romans 8:28 is the fulfillment of the promises that God made to Abraham. Paul goes on to explain this in Romans 9.
3 For I could wish that I myself were accursed from Christ for my brethren,
my countrymen according to the flesh,
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who are Israelites, t
o whom pertain the adoption, the glory, the covenants, the giving of the law, the service of God, and the promises;
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of whom are the fathers and from whom, according to the flesh, Christ came, who is over all, the eternally blessed God. Amen.
6 But it is not that the word of God has taken no effect. For they are not all Israel who are of Israel,
7 nor are they all children because they are the seed of Abraham; but, "In Isaac your seed shall be called."
8 That is, those who are the children of the flesh, these are not the children of God;
but the children of the promise are counted as the seed.
9 For t
his is the word of promise: "
At this time I will come and Sarah shall have a son."
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And not only this, but when Rebecca also had conceived by one man, even by our father Isaac
11 (for the children not yet being born, nor having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works but of Him who calls),
12 it was said to her,
"The older shall serve the younger." (Rom. 9:3-12 NKJ)
As proof of this Paul says,
13 As it is written, "Jacob I have loved, but Esau I have hated." (Rom. 9:13 NKJ)
God choose Jacob and not Esau. But does the passage say he was chosen to be saved? Not at all. It says the elder, Esau, shall serve the younger Jacob. It was part of God's plan. God told Abraham that he would be the father of a great nation. It was through Jacob that the Jewish nation came into being. Romans chapter 9 is an explanation of what Paul said in Romans 8:28-30.