I believe that the reason that you don't see how my testimony and the bible match up with the idea that man has a will but not a free will, is because of how you apply the term "free" in front of "will". You have been concerned with pointing to the occurrence of a decision being made so as to establish a free will. While I am not only conceding that we do make decisions, I also am addressing the actual spirit behind the word free will, which implies personal responsibility for the choice, and not just the ability to choose. The term "free", the way I perceive you are using it, serves to not recognize that there are any higher powers that move the will to do either good or evil, and therefore holds to blame the individual, whom I would see as blind and held captive. 2 Timothy 2:26, 2 Timothy 3:13. Romans 6:17, Philippians 2:13.
If you believe the person is held captive in such a way as to not be able to make a decision for good or evil and only a decision for evil, then they can not be justly held responsible for their actions!!
Yet God who is just does hold them responsible for their actions!
So the problem is either that God is an unjust God or the person does have freedom to choose between good and evil. And we see that man did in fact eat of the tree of knowledge of both good and evil. (Gen 2:9, Gen 2:17, Gen 3:5, Gen 3:22) And now you are saying that man doesn't have a knowledge of both good and evil because they are blinded and held captive. I say that even a blind person that is held captive still has a knowledge of both good and evil and still has the freedom to choose.
Do you think that if I poked out the eyes of a man and put him in prison with evil men that he still would have some knowledge of good and evil? I don't think so! That man may have trouble finding a way out, but he still has the knowledge and the ability to think freely and discern between the two. So if someone that does see shows him the way out he could choose freely choose it, despite the situation he is in. And infact all men have been shown because Paul wrote that the gospel had already been preached to the entire world, apparently by angels, so there is no excuse.
Rom 1:20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse
So the blindness and imprisonment of man is as much self inflected because we choose evil and sin, over God! And God has made a was through the cross to repent, which is again a decision that can be made regardless of men's predisposition.
You are making an excuse for men, but there is none.
For example you reference and apparently interpret Phil 2:13 as if Phil 2:12 had never been read.
Phil 2:13 but it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure
A person might think be reading that verse along that God is doing all the work and controlling the person's will. But the prior verse already explains that a choice was made by that person.
Phil 2:12 So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling:
That verse proceeds the one you quoted. The obeying came first. The man was working out their salvation first, then we see God at work in the person, and God willing to work for His good pleasure. So you got it backwards according to what was written in Philippians because you didn't read the first verse and consider what it said.
God has left a testimony, and men (all men) need to choose God and He will come into them and eat with them.
Jesus Christ stands at the door and knocks, and if anyone (even a blind man in prison) hears HIs voice and opens the door He will come into them! (Rev 3:20) Even a blind man can hear in the worst situation can hear!! And even a blind man in the worst situation can freely make a choice. Even a blind man can come to Jesus!
Mat 9:28 And when he was come into the house, the blind men came to him: and Jesus saith unto them, Believe ye that I am able to do this? They said unto him, Yea, Lord.