A good man is hard to find
This phrase was coined by songwriter Eddie Green in 1918
The concept is common enough in secular sayings - remember the movie, "Looking for Mr. Goodbar"?
Here's the whole song:
A good man is hard to find
You always get the other kind
Just when you think that he is your pal
You look for him and find him fooling 'round some other gal
Then you rave, you even crave
To see him laying in his grave
So, if your man is nice, take my advice and hug him in the morning, kiss him ev'ry night,
Give him plenty lovin', treat him right
For a good man nowadays is hard to find, a good man nowadays is hard to find.