When someone contracts with someone to mow their lawn for a certain price and they don't honor the agreement and pay less than what was agreed to. What should they do?
Agree to mow their lawn again? File a law suit to reclaim the missing funds? If the contract was verbal, it'll be one's word against the other's. However, if the contract was in writing and signed by both parties, one may have a strong case in front of a judge.
Sometimes we become the victim because we allow ourselves to be the victim. When the employer fails to honor an agreement, was it in writing so there is no mistaking what was agreed to? Was it clearly defined what the emloyees duties were and did said employee truly fulfill the part of the contract completely without question? Did the employee continue to work for this employer or did he/she tell the company to take a hike? Did the employee feel he/she had a case worthy of a judge's hearing and if so, did he/she pursue justice?
When my employer failed to respect me, as I felt I had earned, I had a choice to make. I could tell them to stick it and walk out to find work elsewhere or I could stick it out. I chose the latter because I believed in my heart that it would come around back to me eventually. I knew this because of past experience. I allowed my company to have their way that time but I truly believed it wouldn't be for long. If I didn't believe the way I did and still chose to stay with the company knowing they jilted me, I would be allowing myself to be a victim.
That's the problem. Too often we believe we are stuck in situations and don't have the drive to pick ourselves up by the bootstraps and move on. There's a phrase that I heard and I like to use it from time to time. "I was looking for work when I found this job."
My boss at my new job is doing that to me. I was utterly honest with him during the interview. What I can do, can't do, can do but don't want to (installing) but am willing to help out with during crunch time or when something comes up and their in a pinch about, and what I can do but will refuse to do. I layed all my cards on the table like I should do.
How would it benefit me to lie to him? It would only embarass me later when they sent me out to work on what I said I can do. Plus it would prove that I am a liar.
No, I don't have to lie to get a job. Nobody knows everything. So why would I misrepresent myself?
(Besides, Jesus was standing right beside me while I interviewed. I had actually invited Him)
He said it sounds good, but the reality is that He don't know me nor does anyone intown. He said he's been raked across the coals by liars which he prematurely paid too well, so he is willing to hire me but only for what amounts to helper wages (less money than I was earning in the trade in 1992 , 26 years ago) until I was able to "prove" my competency and trustworthiness to him...
It was a legitimate concern from his side of the desk and so I comprehended it. He could be blowing sunshine up my skirt to manipulate me into signing on for a ridiculous pay rate...but to be big about it, I had to give him the benefit of the doubt.
Proving competency is easy. I can do it. I did not lie.
Proving trustworthyness should be easy. The truth comes out whether good or bad.
It's been 5 weeks now. I've been in prove it mode. I work early, late, long hard hours doing what I told him I do not want to do...
I've been patient. I've bit my tongue and not complained and hung in there. For all I know, he's been being hard on me as part of my proving to him.
He interferes with my ability to prove myself. I have been unable to prove anything other than I'm reliable no problems with showing up everyday.
He's slowly proving to me that he lied to me a lot in the interview. He's proven he doesn't care about his crew. He's pushing me out the door.
I told one of the office staff this morning while picking up my check ..does anyone here know and realize that I am about a quarter inch away from quitting?
He bout fell off his chair. WHAT? WHAT HAPPENED?
I am not being given a fair shake. Everybody in the office has told me they like me, I'm the best helper this company ever had...except the boss.
I'll prolly be unemployed Monday.
I can not let the boss take advantage of me and lie to me...I was looking for a job when I found this one...
I'm not sure what kind of reception I'll have on Monday. It's going to be interesting.. .I had to give them a warning, a clue to how I feel. They're either too dumb to pick up on the subtle polite hints that I have been dropping, or its manipulation of me and they dont care....we'll see.