I was brought up with the understanding that the law stated that if I broke it, I was guilty. No question intended, just that simple. And if I did not break it, I was not guilty or under it. It had always been as simple to me as that!
This is no surprise since we pretty well take for granted the traditions that we are brought up into. Unless you're really willing to question those traditions then you live by them all your life. But really what I am trying to convey is that
if you are a believer in Christ in that when it is said to you that God exists and raised him from the dead, and you believe and accept that, then you have access to the grace of God.
Rom 5:2 Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
That is you now have liberty from keeping the law. Yes all are guilty under the law but according to God he that is guilty of one point is guilty of all, considering that there is over 1600 then it is hardly possible that a man could not have failed in one point. However the reason for the law is clearly stated:
Rom 11:32 For God has consigned all to disobedience, that he may have mercy on all.
Rom 11:33 Oh, the depth of the riches and wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are his judgments and how inscrutable his ways!
Rom 11:34 "For who has known the mind of the Lord, or who has been his counselor?"
Rom 11:35 "Or who has given a gift to him that he might be repaid?"
Rom 11:36 For from him and through him and to him are all things. To him be glory forever. Amen.
Note: Please don't confuse the law of the bible with the democratic laws of state which govern our society.
I pray you will see that salvation is based solely upon the mercies of God?
Lam 3:22 It is of the LORD'S mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.
Through all things, if we will:
2Ch 7:14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
Simply continue to seek after God. Don't be afraid of examining traditions but rely much more on prayer and other means of coming into the presence of God. He will lead! He that started a good work will bring it to completion. Find a supportive group that will help you keep your balance. If nothing else, seek to find balance in your approach towards things and don't let it all become counter-productive to you.