Tofuy wrote
how do your kids seem to compare with their peers? are they quieter or louder or no different? do they run around more or run around less? are there any big differences that you've noticed?
Well, I try not to make comparisons between them and other children. For one, I think a lot of other stuff factors in, along with diet. Other children may not have the same upbringing, and it could impact their behavior negatively or positively as the case may be.
If I compare my oldest son now, to how he was before we changed, he is a whole lot calmer. And given my child rearing techniques haven't changed, I believe I can attribute a large part of it to diet. Of course, as a child grows they mature, so there's that part of it to.
1. When he was very small our pediatrician warned us that medication may be in his future...he never seemed to sleep once we he started eating "real" food. Then, when we changed, he seemed to be able to muster more self-discipline. And to sleep better.
2. I noticed that his hair and his skin looked fresher and healthier too.
3. His taste buds are different from before...I have friends that have nicknamed my children the salad eaters. When we go out to eat at a buffet or something...they start with salad and finish with fruit. And actually prefer water, even when I give them permission to have a sprite or juice. LOL
I believe that their behavior is also affected by several other things. My son was three when we changed our diet, and though behaviorally I could see a change, I also believe that his own growth, and upbringing impacted him as well.
1. Consequences for disobedience. When my children disobey...they are disciplined consistently.
2. Work...they are required to work, physically, and with their minds, daily. They are encouraged to have the attitude that work is good, naturally beneficial, and designed by God. Work most of the time, play some of the time, and rest time is required. Laziness is less than your best, and that's a sin.
4. Positive input. I think that if you take away things like T.V. and video games, and other pop culture entities then you must fill them with something else. Bible study and prayer. Required memorization of scripture and poems. Good books...we have lot's of reading time. Values through mediums such as music and videos. Creativity through art, music, and writing. The list goes on. Cleanliness and manners...through daily practice.
5. Complaining. I think that this is really preventative of a bad attitude, and potentially disruptive and disrespectful behaviors. We are not allowed to complain or whine. If there is a problem, I encourage them to come to me and discuss it, but they know that I have final say. I think they feel respected, and learn to respect others. We have thankful time around our dinner table...you must tell of one thing of which you are thankful, and tell of one thing you are thankful for in each family member.
Anyway, I know diet has impacted all of us, but I don't want to discount these other things. Maybe they are interrelated. Maybe a family that is more conscientious in general has a healthier diet because they have made themselves aware. I certainly think that a child that has a great diet, but has everything else wrong in his life, will not be well behaved or healthy.