Wow...there are some varied opinions on this, huh?
I like the 'watered' down quote. lol. In fact, I thought about the very thing myself this morning. I thought, "wow, we have really 'watered' down baptism". I laughed, then I grieved.
We completely misunderstand the word "baptism". I know I have posted something like this before, but it never hurts to reiterate the fact behind true baptism.
The word that Jesus uses is interesting to say the least;
Mat 28:19 "Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,"
The word is baptizō -
1) to dip repeatedly, to immerse, to submerge (of vessels sunk)
2) to cleanse by dipping or submerging, to wash, to make clean with water, to wash one's self, bathe
3) to overwhelm
This definition, as well as the rest is taken from blueletterbible.org;
The clearest example that shows the meaning of baptizo is a text from the Greek poet and physician Nicander, who lived about 200 B.C. It is a recipe for making pickles and is helpful because it uses both words. Nicander says that in order to make a pickle, the vegetable should first be 'dipped' (baptô) into boiling water and then 'baptised' (baptizô) in the vinegar solution. Both verbs concern the immersing of vegetables in a solution. But the first is temporary. The second, the act of baptising the vegetable, produces a permanent change.
So. In order to fulfill the commandment Jesus made in Matthew with water; we would have to take the individual to a body of water, put them under the water, and wait till they became water...
But...Jesus said to 'baptize' them in the 'name of'...So...we teach them, we instruct them, "immerse" them into the doctrine[body of teaching Jesus taught while here on the earth] of the Lord. We completely OVERWHELM them to the point that they 'take on' the image of Christ. Like the cucumber eventually takes on, or rather 'in', the vinegar.
Instead what we do is fight over whether one has to be dunked, sprinkled, showered...river, pond, lake, bathtub...
We have seriously "watered down" the meaning of the word. We do our "form" of baptizing people and never once fulfill the command of Christ. Countless upon countless 'people' are walking around completely convinced they have been baptized, and they do not have a drop of Christ in them...
Sad...