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Why is it so hard to find good, Christian girls?

Good deeds are but filthy rags without God. I could never see myself with a non-Christian, I've been down that road and being "unevenly yoked" is more than just a catchy phrase in the Bible. It causes very real problems, whether your mate is a "good person" or not.
 
Good deeds are but filthy rags without God.

According to what precisely? A person who needs no motive to do good is a rare thing in this world today. Anyone who has that talent is far more disciplined and even than someone who needs a leash.

Someone who needs no drive, incentive, or reward to do what is right, but instead acts from self initiative to what is right only because it's the right thing to do.

Christian or not, that would be a keeper.
 
I don't think it'd be a good idea to marry someone who's not a Christian. Not because I think you can't be moral if you're not Christian (I don't think that), but because, as someone else said, the difference in beliefs can cause some conflicts and problems in the relationship. Plus, if they had any children, that would be an added difficulty when it came to educating them on worldviews.
 
Good Christian girls are hard to find because they struggle just like good Christian men do. Patience is required when a Godly man is seeking a Godly woman.
 
One of my brothers wanted to get married..... He felt he was in love with Wanda .. We were talking about praying for a wife and family all that stuff..... In the morning he comes banging down the stairs.. reba reba this was on the floor the glass is broken! Now what will i do he asks.... That nite he had asked God to let him know if Wanda was right for him. Knowing my brother he didnt ask just once... Wanda's picture had fallen from the night stand to floor ...Shortly after .. Out of the clear a girl he knew briefly in high school called him They have been married 40 years now....Trust in the Lord....
 
One of my brothers wanted to get married..... He felt he was in love with Wanda .. We were talking about praying for a wife and family all that stuff..... In the morning he comes banging down the stairs.. reba reba this was on the floor the glass is broken! Now what will i do he asks.... That nite he had asked God to let him know if Wanda was right for him. Knowing my brother he didnt ask just once... Wanda's picture had fallen from the night stand to floor ...Shortly after .. Out of the clear a girl he knew briefly in high school called him They have been married 40 years now....Trust in the Lord....

wow!
 
According to what precisely? A person who needs no motive to do good is a rare thing in this world today. Anyone who has that talent is far more disciplined and even than someone who needs a leash.

Someone who needs no drive, incentive, or reward to do what is right, but instead acts from self initiative to what is right only because it's the right thing to do.

Christian or not, that would be a keeper.
"Christian or not, that would be a keeper.".


Doesn't matter how "good" a non-Christian is, a Christian has no businesses being in a relationship with them, be it dating or marriage.
 
One of my brothers wanted to get married..... He felt he was in love with Wanda .. We were talking about praying for a wife and family all that stuff..... In the morning he comes banging down the stairs.. reba reba this was on the floor the glass is broken! Now what will i do he asks.... That nite he had asked God to let him know if Wanda was right for him. Knowing my brother he didnt ask just once... Wanda's picture had fallen from the night stand to floor ...Shortly after .. Out of the clear a girl he knew briefly in high school called him They have been married 40 years now....Trust in the Lord....

Don't you just love How God works.
 
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