The insecurity crowd rejects so much Scripture in order to hold to their doctrine.
Not really. They see that there are warnings and admonitions in the N.T. They just misdirect them to themselves, as believers, (or more commonly deflect and convey them to other believers.)
The eternal security crowd has the reverse problem, thinking those scriptures don't apply whatsoever.
There is middle ground to be had to take hold of judgments and the more dire matters of the Word.
Where we see Jesus in our midst, that is, within us, He divides Gods children from their enemy in the flesh.
That is how Jesus operates.
Trying to drag the tempter in the flesh into salvation will never compute.
Trying to toss believers into the measures of the Word that is against the adversary doesn't work either.
Both sides of this engagement need only observe their own evil thoughts, to perceive the enemy, and the source of our present defiling in the flesh,
and direct all judgments, dire, that direction.
This however is a huge spiritual problem, because it requires honesty before our Maker, and a searching from Him, of why evil thoughts transpire. We all dismiss them as being of the tempter, and only blame ourselves. That is not the case, nor was it ever.
This working in the O.T. was external, but, post belief, this activity is turned, within:
Exodus 3:20
And I will stretch out my hand, and smite Egypt with all my wonders which I will do
in the midst thereof: and
after that he will let you go.
Psalm 110:2
The Lord shall send the rod of thy strength out of Zion: rule thou
in the midst of thine enemies.
Isaiah 25:11
And
he shall spread forth his hands in the midst of them, as he that swimmeth spreadeth forth his hands to swim: and
he shall bring down their pride together with the spoils of their hands.
Any believer who seeks only to hear the smooth Words, just isn't listening.
Matthew 10:16
Behold, I send you forth as
sheep in the midst of wolves:
be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.
Jesus Himself, was crucified
between a believer and a resistor:
John 19:18
Where they crucified him, and two other with him, on either side one, and Jesus
in the midst.
The overcoming that Jesus speaks of isn't "us" overcoming some other person, but of us, prevailing against the enemy of our soul, that we carry in our own flesh.
Revelation 2:7
He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; To him that overcometh will I give to eat of the tree of life, which is
in the midst of the paradise of God.
Revelation 12:
10 And I heard a loud voice saying in heaven, Now is come salvation, and strength, and the kingdom of our God, and the power of his Christ: for
the accuser of our brethren is cast down, which accused them before our God day and night.
11 And
they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and
by the word of their testimony; and
they loved not their lives unto the death.
We overcome
WHOM???
9 And
the great dragon was cast out,
that old serpent, called
the Devil, and Satan,
which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out
into the earth, and his angels were cast out with him.
I swear, if any believer is honest before God in Christ,
and acknowledges that their evil thoughts are of Satan, the tempter,
they'll NEVER adversely judge another believer as long as they live in the flesh.