At least to me, there is too much literalism here with no give and take, and some understanding of a woman's hormonal issues, not to mention her monthly period that she has to deal with, not to mention raising kids and keeping a house as nice as she can, and what you can do, depends on the age of the kids, if you have any.
There were times with my wife, I let her know I wanted her, but sometimes she was too distracted or tired.
That verse about a man's body isn't his, and a woman's body isn't hers, is about giving not taking.
The bible says that we are to love our wives as Christ loved the church.
These verses in the bible need to be understood that God's word isn't about rule-keeping, because the bible says, in your mind, that she should drop everything including her pants, so you can have her, and no's aren't allowed . We as men have to be very aware of our wife's situation, and not just be concerned about your own needs, otherwise, sex just becomes a duty, and the wife feels used and unappreciated for all she does for the family.
If you want it, jump in and help her, and make it fun, so she feels important and worth your effort to help, so she can enjoy being with you also.
Sex is about both of you enjoying that moment, Together, and both of you having the time and desire and energy, to satisfy each other.
These verses to me are a test of how much a man loves his wife, by how he treats her, because of how he interprets this part of the bible, and showing love to her in a Godly way.
My 2 cents.
There were times with my wife, I let her know I wanted her, but sometimes she was too distracted or tired.
That verse about a man's body isn't his, and a woman's body isn't hers, is about giving not taking.
The bible says that we are to love our wives as Christ loved the church.
These verses in the bible need to be understood that God's word isn't about rule-keeping, because the bible says, in your mind, that she should drop everything including her pants, so you can have her, and no's aren't allowed . We as men have to be very aware of our wife's situation, and not just be concerned about your own needs, otherwise, sex just becomes a duty, and the wife feels used and unappreciated for all she does for the family.
If you want it, jump in and help her, and make it fun, so she feels important and worth your effort to help, so she can enjoy being with you also.
Sex is about both of you enjoying that moment, Together, and both of you having the time and desire and energy, to satisfy each other.
These verses to me are a test of how much a man loves his wife, by how he treats her, because of how he interprets this part of the bible, and showing love to her in a Godly way.
My 2 cents.