Dave, do you believe that God wants everyone to be saved?
Yes, if by 'want' you mean 'desires'. Keeping in mind that His desire is separate from His decree.
On a side note, if we are saved by 100% grace, then why not children who, as God says, are innocent, not knowing their right from their left? Why must children do something that they cannot do, not because of sin, but because their minds have not developed enough to comprehend these things?
think about this...
At what point are we "under the law"?
This is the way I see it.
Romans 3:20 "Therefore by the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his sight:
for by the law is the knowledge of sin.
First a child must be able to comprehend the law, not the written law as in God's Word, but the law that is written on everyones hearts. When we understand that what we are doing is wrong and we do it anyways, we become accountable to the law.
Consider this also...
Romans 1:18-21 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men,
who suppress the truth in unrighteousness,...
One must be able to comprehend the truth before one could suppress it.
What truth are we talking about?
...Because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them. For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen,
being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse,
Because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened.
Ones mind must be able to comprehend what God has sewn into ones unsaved heart, until then , he is called innocent, not knowing his right from his left.
So that's some of it. Hope this helps. I didn't want to derail this thread, but I guess it's too late. Sorry Jason.
Dave